I tend to be courteous but not specifically to females.
Posts by cofty
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70Ladies First
by snugglebunny ini know a lady who says she feels demeaned if a man walks on the outside or opens a door for her or stands aside to let her pass.
i just think it's good manners.
being a gentleman has nothing to do with equality in my opinion..
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Tottenham through to the Champions League final !!!
by LoveUniHateExams inf**kin yeah - get in!!.
spurs came back from 2-0 on the night and 3-0 on aggregate to win the second leg against ajax 3-2, going through to the final on away goals.. lucas moura completed his hat-trick and scored the winner in the 5th minute of stoppage time.
well done to the manager and all the players for never giving up.. #coys .
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cofty
If tonight goes according to plan all four teams in Europe's two biggest competitions will be English.
The English Premier League is a fantastic product.
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Corporal punishment
by Incognigo Montoya inso i just finished watching the latest cedars video on spanking children.
i like lloyd, and think that overall he does a good job covering issues in his videos.
but i've gotta disagree with him on this issue, to a point.. i don't agree with beating your children, but i do believe in spanking, when appropriate.
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cofty
if your kid is in my presence, I expect him or her to behave. Whatever you gotta do to make it happen, do it
Could not disagree more.
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Corporal punishment
by Incognigo Montoya inso i just finished watching the latest cedars video on spanking children.
i like lloyd, and think that overall he does a good job covering issues in his videos.
but i've gotta disagree with him on this issue, to a point.. i don't agree with beating your children, but i do believe in spanking, when appropriate.
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cofty
Stop digging
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Corporal punishment
by Incognigo Montoya inso i just finished watching the latest cedars video on spanking children.
i like lloyd, and think that overall he does a good job covering issues in his videos.
but i've gotta disagree with him on this issue, to a point.. i don't agree with beating your children, but i do believe in spanking, when appropriate.
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cofty
You think adults should hit young children so as to 'build up a resilience to pain'.
What sort of explanation do I need to give for condemning that?
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Corporal punishment
by Incognigo Montoya inso i just finished watching the latest cedars video on spanking children.
i like lloyd, and think that overall he does a good job covering issues in his videos.
but i've gotta disagree with him on this issue, to a point.. i don't agree with beating your children, but i do believe in spanking, when appropriate.
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cofty
Specifically?
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Corporal punishment
by Incognigo Montoya inso i just finished watching the latest cedars video on spanking children.
i like lloyd, and think that overall he does a good job covering issues in his videos.
but i've gotta disagree with him on this issue, to a point.. i don't agree with beating your children, but i do believe in spanking, when appropriate.
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cofty
what happens if they won't be reasoned with?
There are all sorts of punishments you can use. Denial of privileges - no TV, games, after-school sports etc. With little children being made to sit apart from the family for a while 'the naughty step' can be effective.
Even more important is noticing and rewarding good behaviour.
It takes time, patience, and consistency. Act like an intelligent adult.
In the UK it is illegal to smack using any implement or to use your hand in such a way as to leave a mark. In Scotland the legal defence of 'reasonable chastisement' is set to be removed this year making smacking illegal.
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Corporal punishment
by Incognigo Montoya inso i just finished watching the latest cedars video on spanking children.
i like lloyd, and think that overall he does a good job covering issues in his videos.
but i've gotta disagree with him on this issue, to a point.. i don't agree with beating your children, but i do believe in spanking, when appropriate.
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cofty
I think when parent are too soft on children, it doesn't build up a resilience to pain. - Olig
Perhaps the most idiotic comment I have read on this forum for a very long time.
FFS please don't have children.
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Drunk lol
by Lost in the fog injw excuse for drunk driving.
lol.
https://www.three.fm/news/isle-of-man-news/jail-for-jehovahs-witness-who-refused-to-give-blood-sample/ .
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cofty
The Isle of Man is a very bad place to break the law. It only stopped whipping people with a birch in 1976.
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Corporal punishment
by Incognigo Montoya inso i just finished watching the latest cedars video on spanking children.
i like lloyd, and think that overall he does a good job covering issues in his videos.
but i've gotta disagree with him on this issue, to a point.. i don't agree with beating your children, but i do believe in spanking, when appropriate.
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cofty
there are times when it is warranted and needed
There are times that parents run out out of wisdom and/or patience. Smacking makes you feel like you have an answer. It's lazy and counter-productive.
How many times have you heard a parent say 'stop doing that' but their body-language and tone of voice invites defiance? Too many parents only want to be best buddies with their children and forget to be the adult.