Happy Birthday! It's great to Celebrate.
Adiva
Happy Birthday! It's great to Celebrate.
Adiva
i grew up in an extended italian american family in jackson heights, a ten minute drive to new york city.
i did not meet a black person until i was in sixth grade.
our neighborhood was a a melting pot.....of white people.
Nicely put.
Adiva
blondie posted her watchtower comments for today and her last paragraph was asking for help, suggestions.
she is in pain from her knee injury, is on steroids and possibly going to have surgery.. she is asking if anyone here, has had the same problem, and if so, what did they do and how was the outcome?.
just lois.
I'm so sorry about your injury. I know your hubby will want to take care of you and you will let him. Only cuz you deserve it!
((Hugs))
Adiva
Okay Cantleave. That makes it easier. You've got my email. Send me a note when you get a chance.
Adiva
Cantleave, you have a PM.
Adiva
Don't see why not. I'll post something on Chicago Meetup and on the FB group.
Adiva
peacefully after a short bout with leukemia.
she was 88 years old and the foundation of my life.
she will be sadly missed by me and everyone whose lives she has touched.. .
Her love continues within you.
So sorry for your loss.
Adiva
i could be wrong, but i can't help but be a bit optimistic.last night my parents and i had our "family worship night".
i hate it, and i believe my mother does too.
my dad only does it because he's an elder but last night even he was acting like he didnt want to do it.
Amazing. I had goosebumps reading your account.
Great suggestions by everyone. I look forward to hearing more about this.
Adiva
i have been reading post on this forum for many months and i wanted to thank you all for all the great posts and comments that have really helped me get through this hard year of fading.
my husband and i where born in jdubs and almost 1 year ago we started to fade , now that we think about it has been a few years that we were suffering from cognitive dissonance without knowing it.
we feel that finally we have our life back , a life that is just starting.
Hi and Welcome.
We're all family here, quirks and foibles but there is also genuine love and acceptance. Congratulations on really living the rest of your lives the way you wish to.
BTW, I actually had to laugh when I read that your family paid money to find out what websites you were visiting. Poor things. They really need to get a life.
Cheers!
Adiva
thank you to the many people who have posted their experiences and advice on this site!
i have browsed a few topics but the threads that i seem to gravitate to the most deal with family.
there is certainly a lot that i can relate to in many of the anecdotes i have read.
Parents are authority figures and the jw stuff makes them even more so, especially in their own eyes.
I have issues with my mother although on reflection I wonder if it's more a mother/daughter thing. I need her to see me as a fully functioning, successful adult and I feel as though she sees me as less than that because of I walked away from the 'truth'. We bristle, and sometimes clash because (I think) she feels I should simply obey her absolutely just because she's my mother.
It's complicated.
Adiva