Not only should you dump him, he needs his @$$ kicked for what he did to you, abusive men don't change without serious help. If at all
avishai
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Keep or dump
by Mercedes ini need some advice.
i have been dating this guy for 3 years.
of those 3 years, he has cheated on me many many times, but i can only prove some.
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Is There ANYTHING That Would Make You Go Back?
by SpannerintheWorks incould the wbts change anything about it's beliefs that would entice you back to the religion?.
or are you firmly against the wbts no matter what?.
even if it changed it's rules on shunning, blood, "worldly things" ?.
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avishai
Ultimate elder fighting championship!
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How to get around "prophet" issue...?
by Happy ini was wondering if anyone has a soloution to this little problem: as we all know, the wt claims to be the faithful and discreet slave, jehovah's spirit directed channel, blah blah blah, but i don't think they ever actually said the word prophet in relation to themselves.
if they have, i've yet to find the quote.
does anyone know how to get around this problem when a thoroughly brainwashed sheep uses the defense that "the wt never said they were a prophet so that argument is not valid"?
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avishai
What the hell would you call a spirit directed channel? I'd say that's a damn good definition of a prophet. Sorry, this just gets under my skin the way they try to skirt this issue, either your spirit directed or your not. No in between B.S, how the heck can you be innacurately spirit directed?
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HELP!!! I need a name
by bluesapphire inwe can't agree on a name for our soon to be born baby boy.. i love the name tristen.
he hates it.. he wants a basic name like bobby, tony, etc.. is there a name that sounds like tristen but isn't?.
give me some ideas if you can.
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avishai
I've always been partial to Tarzan, I mean, who would mess w/ him on the playground?
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I got an answer from my dad
by Elsewhere infor several months i have been asking my family and the organization what the difference is between someone who "simply leaves the faith" and someone who "went out" (disassociates).. http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.aspx?id=39631&site=3 .
today i finally got the answer from my dad on the phone.
according to my dad (an elder), someone who simply leaves the faith is someone who still believes in jehovah and the organization, but does not attend the meetings.
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avishai
I stuck around for about& 5 yrs. of abuse, finally pulled my fam out.
BUT it might have happened sooner if I was the one that bailed.
I applaud your bravery, it's one of the hardest things to do,
but you have better reason than them, your not hurtung anyone by
leaving the jw. The jw hurts, molests & kills on a daily basis &
has absolutely no shame, that's why JR clown, their spokesman
sticks his foot in it all the time & does'nt even realize that
he's hanging the entire org. legally.
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Jesus Sacrifice - How Stupid and Illogical
by MrMoe injesus dying for our sins... um, why.. because adam made a mistake?
based upon what?
jehovah's rules?
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avishai
I clearly want nothing to do with Zeus and Gorf
Oh, come on! GORF rules! It's one of the best 80's video games ever! It was , like, 4 video games in one, kinda like Tron. Please believe in gorf, because I say so! Because if you don't, your almighty soul is at risk. Well, I guess you could believe in Tron. That'd be o.k too. Gosh, am I tired!
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Newly DA'ed Our story
by Robotnomore inmy wife and i have been witnesses for almost 50 years.
we are both third generation witnesses and raised in the "lie".
we raised our kids in it also.
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avishai
I appreciate your letter, especially the "lie" part, & the comic book part. Welcome, RNM!
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JW causing more grief over my Dad's death Sat.
by Nancy K in.
my jw sister is causing problems with my dad's death this past saturday..she is down in florida, where my parents live, went there on a pleasure trip to begin with, then our dad passed (as i wrote) unexpectedly..now, she is pressuring my mom to have a viewing and a 'talk' by some jw's and my mom does not want this..my sister is one of those 'double life' jw's..she says unkind things about me behind my back, re: my illness(as my mom has told me), but she has been 'engaged' for 4 yrs.to a 'worldly guy' and we all know they sleep together, etc.,then she turns around and acts like she's miss spirituality..for her to do what she's doing now, well i don't know what to do..i want my mom and dad's wishes to be #1, and for her to try and pressure my mom into a service, also without giving me a chance to be there, well i'm not feeling too good at this point..thank you all so much for your replies, e-mails and love..don't know what i would do without you guys.
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avishai
The way I see it it's two to one in your favor, also your mom is ill. Your sister needs to realize that a jw service is'nt going to change god's mind either way. Harrassing your sick mother WILL have an affect on the way "god" views her!
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Temporal Anomalies in Time Travel Movies
by Simon ini love time travel movies ...back to the future, millenium, the twelve monkeys etc.... i just found this great site that analyses / explains some of the time travel 'twists'.
for instance, in twelve monkeys you are seeing the 6th or 7th iteration of the timeline.
interesting reading if you can get your head round it all !.
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avishai
Any dr. who fans out there?
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For Riz
by joannadandy in.
who is in a funk.... *hugs to you*.
cuz i hate to see people in a funk (especially when i am slow in chat, and they leave after saying they are in a funk, and i don't get to give them a cyber hug "in person").
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avishai
Riz, you just tell me which big mean ol' elders hassle you, & I'll have a little "talk" w/ them. You know, man to uhhh weasel, I guess.