@ Dozy
Some of the other more self righteous elders got to hear of it and one night a week or so before the party came the dreaded "knock at the door" and two elders turned up. They were pretty nervous and told me that the elders had met and decided ( by majority ) to rescind my invitation.
That experience is the equivalent of quitting your job and a week later your boss showing up at your door to say you’ve been fired.