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  may need some help soon

  by Missanna in

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  2. experiences

  ok so i send my father a letter telling him several reasons i do not believe the witnesses are jehovah's organization.i also told my father at the end of the letter that i was setting some boundaries once and for all.

  that i would not be emotionally blackmailed or verbally abused anymore that if he wanted to talk to me as a father then i welcome that and if he can't do that then i do not wish to comunicate with him.

  i sent it about a week ago and was waiting for all hell to break loose but nothing happend.

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  Fading tactic that worked well for me

  by traveb in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  if you read some of my past posts you’ll know that i’ve successfully faded while being able to keep contact with my immediate family, who are still very devout jws.

  when i did finally completely stop attending meetings, my family, and especially my parents (elder father and pioneer mom), were of course very interested to know the reasons why.

  at first i deflected their questions, stating that i had personal reasons and did not want to explain myself.

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  Lostwun

  Traveb this is the same approach I have taken with both my family and previous jw associates and I agree wholeheartedly that it works well.

  I still have the occasional love bombing moments from a few jws that still contact me trying to appeal to my emotional side but I never budge to any of their attempts to get me to open up to my reasons for not attending. I keep things chipper and friendly and off that subject and it amazes me how puzzled they get when they see that im so content and happy not being at meetings. Its like they almost expect you to be depressed and down.

  Uhm no. im the happiest ive ever been. Glad to hear you are having the same result. Thx for sharing your story

  Lostwun
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  Should I get babtized?

  by BlackWolf in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i know this sounds like a ridiculous question but i was talking with my mom in the car today and of course we got on the topic of getting babtized again.

  she told me that jehovah holds me accountable for my sins regardless of wether i am babtized or not so i have no reason to be holding back because it won't change anything.

  my parents are the type of super strict jw who will shun you just for not being a witness.

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  Lostwun

  Dude save yourself the grief. Your parents are emotionally blackmailing you to do what they want you to do. Baptism to please them will only create more grief and hardship for you later down the line since you already know ttatt.

  Avoid the dunking!! Turn 18 and move out
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  I lied to the elders

  by atacrossroads in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i stopped attending meetings all together in january 2015. before that my attendance was irregular at best.

  my husband followed suit a few months ago after months of research, agony, and indecision on his part.

  from the very beginning i laid low and did not share with anyone what i found out about the witnesses because i did not want to be df'd.

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  Ata my heart goes out to you.

  If the elders came to your door so eager for your admission, I wouldn't be surprised if they just go ahead an announce you df in absentia without your consent. It seems like sadly both sides of your family are trying to do just that.

  Please prepare yourself for anything that may come out of this. Hopefully they just back off for good and let it ride.

  I really like how u handled yourself. I know saying that is probably pulling on your heart strings since its your mom on the other side of the accusation but remember like everyone else has said YOU OWE THEM NOTHING.

  Dont give them the pleasure of disfellowshipping you with ease. You are bothering nobody they are bothering YOU.

  Stick to your fade.

  Sending many hugs to you. Hang in there hun!

  Lost
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  GB bites off more than they can chew!

  by biblexaminer in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  the gb bit off more than they can chew.

  they promised that the nwt revised would be available in so many languages by now, and they have failed miserably.. english stands alone.

  as a result, they are in damage control mode.

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  Mad puppy- its just like when they say "some names in this article have been changed"

  Same ol' made up people and plots for their fake stories
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  Reference for WT article.

  by Lostwun in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  awhile back someone posted a pic of the rank/ order of command within the org.

  it started with a picture of earth and god sitting on his throne, then the gb body members sitting at there table, then the elders underneath them and then the r&f and so forth.. no mention of jesus in that photo.

  could someone familiar with the article that it came out of provide me with the reference please?.

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  I agree crazyguy and freddo its ridiculous.

  Thank you for the reference information OrphanCrow!
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  Reference for WT article.

  by Lostwun in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  awhile back someone posted a pic of the rank/ order of command within the org.

  it started with a picture of earth and god sitting on his throne, then the gb body members sitting at there table, then the elders underneath them and then the r&f and so forth.. no mention of jesus in that photo.

  could someone familiar with the article that it came out of provide me with the reference please?.

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  Lostwun

  Hello all. Awhile back someone posted a pic of the rank/ order of command within the org.

  It started with a picture of earth and god sitting on his throne, then the GB body members sitting at there table, then the elders underneath them and then the r&f and so forth.

  No mention of jesus in that photo

  Could someone familiar with the article that it came out of provide me with the reference please?

  Thank you
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  Searching the word Scapegoat

  by Lostwun in

  1. forum
  2. tech-support

  hi simon.

  everytime i try to search the word "scapegoat" on the forum i get a "server error".

  is this like a forbidden word or something?

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  Lostwun

  Hi Simon

  Everytime I try to search the word "Scapegoat" on the forum I get a "Server error"

  Is this like a forbidden word or something? I can type in "scapegoats" and it goes through just fine but if I try it in the singular no matter what browser im using the same issue occurs everytime.

  Any insight you can shed on this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
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  Gas Pump "Witnessing"....Is this a thing?

  by Bob Loblaw in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i've seen this twice now within a month.

  a car group hanging out at a gas station.

  one of the cult members jumps outs of their car and runs up to a "worldly" gas pumper, arm stretched out, tract in hand, and here comes the juvenile at best question.

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  Oh yea when I was a jw we used to do that form of preaching all the time. Gas station witnessing was a given everyday to start off our time in the mornings. Most would tell us to F##k off.

  The strategy was to try to catch em while they were pumping gas so they couldn't run off easy. A few gas stations even banned the jws from soliciting there as people would start to complain. Its a very common practice where im from
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  Any ExJw Millenials here? If not which Gen do you fall under?

  by Hidethevelociraptors in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  if anyone had to guess, what do you think the average age of the community actually is?.

  are more millennials actually waking up or is it pretty even amongst previous generations as well?

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  Lostwun

  80's made me. 90's raised me.