I can't top some of these stories, and won't even try. I'll just tell ya one or two that should be told. These go back to a time when I was young and awkward. - and very introverted and shy. I was a young JW who lived on his own and thought that I was really cool.
1) I met this young lady named Nelda. I asked her out, which was a difficult thing for me to do, half expecting rejection. She said 'ok', and so I took her out to dinner and a movie. In hindsight, taking a gal to a buffet-type restaurant is probably not a good idea, but I didn't know the 'rules' for dating.
Anyway, I thought that we had had a good time (the movie was 'Rocky'), I took her home, and said goodnight. Didn't do anything inappropriate... didn't even kiss her. (Knowing me, back then I probably shook her hand.)
The next day, I did the usual 'follow up' phone call, and started talking to her. She told me she was reading one of the revelation books. I started talking about that with her, and she stopped me and said (and I quote), "Look. I don't want you to call me anymore. I just want to be friends."
I never did call her again, and we're friends to this day. (A bit of sarcasm there... for those sarcasm-inhibited.)
Funny thing... a few months later, I was dating my first girl-friend, and we were driving to one of those circuit assemblies. I was driving my girlfriends' black Monte Carlo, and we passed this Nelda girl getting off of a city bus. I asked if we could stop and give her a lift, which we did. So, this gal got to see me being successful with another gal, while she still struggled along... pioneering. (I'm sure some young-buck MS picked her up in no time.)
We dropped her off at the front entrance while we went to park the car, and forget about her.
2) Around the same time-period, I got asked out by a trio of gals. I knew all of them, and agreed to go to the movies with them. On the way to the movies, they all sat in the front seat, and I sat in the backseat. We all had fun, but it was kinda weird.
I guess that one may not qualify as a date.
Regards,
Jim TX
P.S. Just thinking about it... Nelda would probably be relating her side of the story as one of those 'bad dates' with me...