Well, I kinda remember my wedding. The now ex has all of the photos of it. She can keep 'em, although I would like one or two of myself almost 35 years ago.
The wedding? Well, the most expense was my wife wanting to spend her hard-earned money on a wedding dress. I think it was around $300 or so - which back then - for two youngsters in their mid-twenties - well, it could have been spent better.
My tux - a rental. Close to a hundred dollars.
We designed our own invitations and had them printed at the print shop where I worked for a small amount of money.
The kh was used for the wedding. We had to switch from an originally planned Saturday evening to a Friday evening. Someone else wanted the Saturday.
I got an elder friend that I admired, Karl, to do the wedding ceremony.
For the reception, we got a back room at a local restaurant. I believe they charged me something like $50.00. Everyone was on their own for ordering food or whatever.
The wedding cake was made by the wife of the elder who gave the talk. Sammi always told me that she would make the wedding cake for my wedding when I got married, and she did. So, that didn't cost me anything.
My side of the family - JWs - boycotted the wedding. Not sure why, but it was expected.
We just had a best man and a bridesmaid. No extravagant ceremony.
For our honeymoon, my father-in-law gave me his credit card to go and rent a night at the local Holiday Inn. He wasn't a JW. Never was. Nice fella. Miss him.
All in all, I don't think that we spent more than $500 or so. We paid for it all, no inlaws or family helped out. I didn't realize that was an option.
Regards,
Jim TX