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  Does violence solve anything?

  by d in

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  for me i think in some cases violence does solve problems.what do you think..

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  lesabre

  i am fully prepared to put a bullet into the face of anyone who breaks into my house and tries to hurt me or anyone in my house. in that case, violence DOES solve a problem..... but for little things.... no.
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  i need to vent. : /

  by lesabre in

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  sooo...... i'll try to make a long story short..... i am one of 9 kids, most out of different marriages.

  i'm the 3rd to last kid.

  my oldest brother has a 13 year old daughter with his ex-wife.

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  lesabre

  my brother has always ignored the fact i even exist. even when i was little. he even acts like he doesn't know my name!! he's always done it. all because of jealousy. all my older siblings have acted out towards me in different ways to make my parents feel bad for re-marrying. :( but i will try to be the cool aunt. i offered for her to visit me in seattle, but she said she needed to be with "her family" right now. i told her that it hurt my feelings. she just sassed me for it. we have a recording studio in my house and told her she could meet cool bands, go downtown, all sorts of stuff. she just laughed at me. she's totally not the same kid that, just a couple weeks ago, was excited to come when i give birth. now she could care less. :(
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  i need to vent. : /

  by lesabre in

  1. social
  2. family

  sooo...... i'll try to make a long story short..... i am one of 9 kids, most out of different marriages.

  i'm the 3rd to last kid.

  my oldest brother has a 13 year old daughter with his ex-wife.

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  lesabre

  tammy, i totally agree. it's a good thing that a few have just ignored her rude comments and just said that they'd still be there for her. (to which she would give another rude comment. ) but it's just soooo saaadddd!!!
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  i need to vent. : /

  by lesabre in

  1. social
  2. family

  sooo...... i'll try to make a long story short..... i am one of 9 kids, most out of different marriages.

  i'm the 3rd to last kid.

  my oldest brother has a 13 year old daughter with his ex-wife.

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  lesabre

  everyone has tried the route of acting like her buddy and "love bombing" her...... but she's really rude to them.... i can't ever help myself. i ALWAYS say things how they are. so i always end up the bad guy. (ask my little sister about what happens when she makes bad choices, and she's an adult!! lol!!) someone wanted to send her stuff and asked for her address, she said "nice try".... there's no way to get her address. someone just simply asks her anything and she gives one word answers.

  i don't see how her heathcare would get taken care of....

  in the state of oklahoma a 13 year old can tell a judge where they want to live, and they will get custody! just because the kid wants to live there! sooo messed up.
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  i need to vent. : /

  by lesabre in

  1. social
  2. family

  sooo...... i'll try to make a long story short..... i am one of 9 kids, most out of different marriages.

  i'm the 3rd to last kid.

  my oldest brother has a 13 year old daughter with his ex-wife.

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  lesabre

  sooo...... i'll try to make a long story short....

  i am one of 9 kids, most out of different marriages. i'm the 3rd to last kid. my oldest brother has a 13 year old daughter with his ex-wife. ex-wife became homeless, and gave the kid over with a handwritten note saying she gives custody over to my brother. for some reason she ends up living with our mom, who lives next door to him.

  sooo.... he meets this girl, who is dating his neighbor and "steals" her away from him. he's 38 and she's a year younger than me, 26. so... he let's her move in the day after meeting her along with her 3 kids. she sleeps in all day while he takes care of her kids, when he won't even take care of the 2 he has... so.... they dated for a whole 3 months.... and during this time my brother, girlfriend, her kids and my niece all make trips to another state to visit a 58 or so year old man she calls "daddy" who pays all her bills for her. and the relationship ends when my mom looks out her window one night to see this chick sneaking into the old boyfriend's house in the middle of the night. so this girl moves in with "daddy" in the next state, even though she has kids in the state where she was, who live mostly with their dads.

  meanwhile i'm friends with ALL of them on FB.... my niece starts changing her attitude.... started calling the chicks family "her family".... started having MORE of an attitude problem..... so on..... and my brother is looking pitiful whilst trying to get this chick back in his life.

  soo.... a couple weeks ago my brother drops a BOMB on my (VERY SICK!!!) mom and tells her that his kid isn't "HAPPY" at her house and wants to live with his ex-girlfriend in another state, and he thinks it will be sooooooo good for her to move in with that chick and her "daddy". and she will be homeschooled because she hates school (and she refuses to read ANYTHING). yeah.... that'll work out. i was homeschooled and self taught and the ONLY way it works is if the kid WANTS to learn. and she doesn't. anyways...... i was so pissed that i personally called him and asked him a ton of questions. NONE of which he answered honestly, if at all. i asked if he did a background check on these people. "yeah, you think i'm stupid??" of course he didn't. he doesn't even have internet out there in the boonies. i asked if he thinks she gets her bills payed for free. no answer. lol. when i asked if he did ANY reading on the psychological profiles of pedophiles or even anything on child psycology. his answer: "you're talking to a redneck here. don't throw in them rich people words" eeew. i was born and raised poor. but i was ALSO raised to make sure i was educated and to ACT like it!!! (he made so many problems as a kid that my mom HAD to give his dad custody of him) he kept saying that he thought about it a lot and "do you think i'm stupid".... kept wanting to say.... YES I DO!!!! he only knew the chick for 3 months and says he knows her and the old man ain't having sex because he has a pacemaker.

  anyways..... he supposedly signed the kid over to her. i had to delete the ex GF because she kept saying "my daughter" this and that just to rub it in our faces. :( and now my niece is TERRIBLE to any relative or adult she knew before this chick came along.

  it's soooo sad that it makes me sick.
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  The classic features of a JW wedding are:

  by highdose in

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  firstly a wedding/sales talk that mostly features heavily on how the woman should behave (hint, doormat) and lightly brushes over the fact of the husbands bevhaviour ( oh yeah he should treat her well).

  the reception normaly at some crummy comunity hall with yellowed ceilings and chucks of damp plaster falling off the walls.

  the seats normaly arranged facing eachother all around the edge, so that theres a huge unused space in the middle and everyone is climbing over everyone elses legs to get to their chair.. a big spread donated by everyone, normaly an ode to food poisoning.

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  lesabre

  they always had polkas, waltzes, and the chicken dance thrown in at the reception. (in wisconsin anyways) i remember the first wedding i went to where they played a few songs that were ACTUALLY popular at the time and only the young people got up to dance (about 10) and the old people just crabbed about it the entire time. lol. a few weddings later, they got used to it. haha.
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  What are the answers to these?

  by sooner7nc in

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  mid-week songs*: enter the 3 song numbers we'll sing at the next mid-week meeting.

  sunday song title*: what's the title of the last song after the next watchtower study?

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  lesabre

  yessssss..... thanks!! for refference... i put "overheard it talked about in a car group" lol!!
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  looky looky - A 'real' J-dub forum! (are they becoming normal???)

  by Reality79 in

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  so did the 'da society' give these dub internet savvies permission to start a forum?

  because last i checked, the ole boys in their oversized brooklyn bunker didn't want their members on the internet unless it was to view their own official websites.

  i thought maybe it was an apostate forum until i read their long winded, typically condescending jdub style membership guidelines:.

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  lesabre

  it's killing me that i can't see what they are saying... lol!! too many LOL's are being missed here....
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  Are You Going To the Memorial?

  by headisspinning in

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  i can't see myself not attending.

  i would feel horrible not to go.

  i don't know where i'm going to land and if i had to look back and think i didn't go... well, i would feel awful..

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  lesabre

  this is the 6th year i've missed it. boooohoooooooo...... besides, i am currently working on someday converting to Judaism.... so no.... i won't be going. lol!!
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  Jehovah's Witness children and creativity...

  by Tuesday in

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  hey there folks,.

  i remember some time ago there was a wonderfully written website which dealt with jehovah's witness children specific type of suppression causing a higher number of very creative children than other religious forms of suppression.

  i was wondering if anyone remembered what this link was?.

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  lesabre

  i was a VERRRRRY creative kid..... but was discouraged by everyone in the congs..... one sister told me my pictures looked demonic.... >.< i STILL don't see how she got that impression.... i did pictures where the animals would all fit together.... like mc escher.... only i never used the same image twice....