Cadellin, that was awesome :)
I'll use the same analogy:
You hire a watchman to wake you up if he sees, feels or hears anything out of the ordinary.
He wakes you up in the middle of the night for the first time. You are so happy that he woke you up even though it ended up being nothing and are proud that he's taking care of his assignment!
A few weeks later he comes bursting into your room and wakes you up again. You go and check on his findings and get another false alarm. It's to be expected with such a diligent watchman! No matter, you can get back to sleep pretty fast.
The next week he wakes you again, this time adamant that he's found something wrong. You rush out to see nothing. This time he urges you to be cautious, that there is something seriously wrong. You shake your head and think to yourself that you are lucky to have such a perceptive watchman, he obviously can see and hear things that don't even occur to you! Surely you would be dead without his protection!
A few days later he wakes you again... This time, urging you to get a extra pack of clothes and leave as soon as possible. You ask him why and he stresses the point that he is the professional here and there is no time for questions. You make haste and leave your house for a few days and lay low. The whole time you are beaming with pride for choosing such a perceptive protector. He tells you that you cannot go back to that house, that you have to live somewhere else. You comply.
Two weeks later he shakes you violently awake and urges you to stay awake for the rest of the night and hands you a sharpened knife. Again, there is no time for explanation and he urges you to trust him. So you stay awake all night clinging to consciousness as hard as the knife hilt in your hand. When morning comes you ask him if you can go to sleep, he reluctantly allows it.
A few months go by of similar events and at this point you are starved of sleep and basically a walking zombie. You begin to wonder if all this is worth it, since you have never actually SEEN anything wrong, you have been taking it all on the good word of a professional.
So you decide to talk to him about it, when things are not as urgent, which are times few and far between.
You tell him that you have been thinking, that maybe a few of the stressful nights past have been false alarms and that maybe you and him could set up some ground rules about what kinds of things have a need for waking you up, you are losing a lot of sleep.
He becomes very angry at the very mention of this. He argues that you know nothing of late night protection, and nothing of the dangers of that time of night. He tells you that if you try to tell him to do his job that he find someone else to protect and you will die the first few nights while he is away. You try to explain that you are not questioning his competency, but just trying to help fine tune things to make life a little less stressful.
He has none of it and threatens to leave again. At that point it hits you like a ton of bricks. He's been robbing you for months!
When you confront him about your missing items from your house he says he has to go to the bathroom and is never seen again.