Blondie - I was an elder. I stepped down and wrote a letter stating that I longer wished to serve. I cited my young family and that I could not in good conscience do both. The elders met with me 3 times. They didn't want to let me. I told them that if they didn't allow me to step aside and focus on my family that they would end up removing me because I would not be doing the job they wanted me to do. I said that maybe one day when my family was grown, that I would be able to do it again. Finally, they agreed and let me step aside. 4 months later I learned TTATT and then left 2 months after that.
That was 5 years ago...so maybe it has changed