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  Things you didn't think about before you became a parent

  by sabastious in

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  i never had to think about what a massive predicament it is to be watching your 6 month old alone and having a massive dump come along that you know is going to take 10-15 minutes...especially if your child is being really fussy.. -sab.

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  thenoblelodge

  I never thought about the moment they would leave home and how empty I would feel.

  I always knew I would love my children no matter what, but I never realised just what that meant until I held them for the first time.

  The time my youngest (about 3 yrs old) did a great big trump while sitting on a plastic chair during a meeting (sounded like a motor bike) and looking up at me with such sweetness saying, 'mommy I dunned a pardy'. Priceless........ took about 20 mins for everybody to settle back down.

  If you weighed it all up would you do it again..... yeah I think so.
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  Congregation love

  by Anuradha in

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  i would like to just take this opportunity of sending our love to the greenford congregation!!!!.

  just in case any elders are reading, that's the one in middlesex, uk.

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  thenoblelodge

  Hello and welcome. When your ready we'll all be waiting to read your story, if you want to that is.
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  For those who were partakers

  by mamalove in

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  what made you think you were supposed to drink the wine and eat the bread?

  if you left the org, did you still feel like you were going to heaven?.

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  thenoblelodge

  Oh bible brain what have you done. You never question someones claim to be an adopted son or daughter......never, especially as you claim to be one yourself.

  I think AGuest explained quite clearly her reasons for going just ONCE a year.
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  The Issue is Not that God WANTS Us to Suffer...

  by AGuest in

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  dear ones.

  rather, it is our adversary who says we will do anything... anything... to avoid it.

  a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g. even curse god to his face.

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  thenoblelodge

  Peace to you Shelby and don't let anyone rob you of it.
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  In Memoriam 9/11

  by Dogpatch in

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  in memoriam 9/11.

  in memoriamthis picture was taken with my minolta camera at sunrise one early brisk morning around 1978 or 1979 from the roof above my room at 107 columbia heights, penthouse level.

  i had watched the completion of the towers from my bethel room for several years.

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  thenoblelodge

  Fantastic photos, thanks for posting.

  It is said that most people remember where they were/what they were doing when they first heard that JFK had been shot.

  Now it's seems to be most people remember the same about the Twin Towers.

  Peace to all
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  Hey, I'm new here! :)

  by Alan_56 in

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  hey guy's how it going?

  my name is alan_56 and i'm new here on the forum!

  i've been reading a lot of the information that was posted up here for a while and i truly believe now that jehovah's witnesses do not have the truth, and that i have been living a lie my entire life.

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  thenoblelodge

  Hi and welcome. Stay strong and stick to YOUR beliefs, not theirs. Go get yourself an education.
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  My dr's recommending counselling I think it may help....

  by Lozhasleft in

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  i have a good life these days.

  i have a wonderful new husband who shares his lovely family with me.

  i have 'worldly' friends who i'm very fond of.

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  thenoblelodge

  Yeah go for it, it will do you good. You know what they say 'it's good to talk'.
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  I just broke up with Alice..... was it the right thing to do????

  by Darth plaugeis in

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  was it??

  ?.

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  Alice who?
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  SD-7 Is In the House!

  by snowbird in

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  welcome back!.

  you were definitely missed.. syl.

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  thenoblelodge

  Hi good to see you back. Sooooo glad you didn't give in and go back to the Borg.
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  My kid gets it

  by mamalove in

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  so last night my 6 year old tells me that her dad said to her while tucking her in at night "mama is going to die because she caused the divorce, and grandpa wanted mommy to divorce me all the days of his life.".

  (my dad left the lie when i was 5, and i left a year ago... and subsequently am almost through with the divorce and the ex is a bitter, ignorant, crazy tempered jw).

  so its all our fault, and i am going to die, makes sense.. last night i called up the ex and told him that he was nothing short of a mental pedophile, that you don't tell your daughter her mother is as good as dead, and he needs to knock it off and he is in violation of our anti-disparagement agreement that the courts have insisted on due to the religious and personal strife between us.

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  thenoblelodge

  Well done on telling your daughter it's a lie that you are going to die. It is a lie and a big fat evil one at that.

  My grandaughter suffered terribly when we all left the Borg. She was convinced we were going to die because we had left Jehovah, but then she too 'got it'. Once it sinks in they start getting on with their little lives. She's already planning Christmas lol.

  Is there any way you can go to court and get an order out against him that will prevent any further occurances of this abuse. Judges don't take kindly to children being scared to death. He has rights as a father and should have access, but your child has rights too. She needs to feel safe and secure, which she isn't getting with her father's scare tactics.

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