wuzllovesdubs==this is just so horrible for you and your family...nothing worse than not being able to help when needed,,and just waiting for a "word"....i do not pray,,,but if it is of any help to you....if i could,,,i would bring you over supper/drinks...so you would not have to worry about that and maybe the pressure would not be so bad...
but i can't...but i really would if i could....really!! my heart is with you at this time,,,,you are not alone with this,,,as you can see from the posts here..
i hope it turns out well....