CuriousButterfly

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  How do JWs in your area treat those who are "No Longer A Publisher.."?

  by Open mind in

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  Depends on who the person is. The fanatics shun them like they are Df'd and ones like me treat them like a human being and say hi and engage them in a conversation.

  I once got so pissed, a "supposed" regular pioneer in my KH. Another pioneer has a daughter who was inactive, did nothing wrong and the daughter who is a young adult went up to the car group to say "hi". This *pioneer* would not even look her way and acted liked she murdered her family member. People really need to realize if they are not God and should not judge.
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  How did you choose your screenname for jw.net?

  by Voices in

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  alright, i'm curious now cause i've been wanting to know how certain people go their screennames.

  now some people have their names involved with makes sense and so forth.

  but i guess i'll start out.

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  I wanted something completely anonymous that no one could figure it was me. I am VERY curious and float around like a butterfly, sit on members *shoulders* and listen to another point of view since I am not completely drinking the *kool-aid*. Corny I know... lol
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  Elder( He does'nt know I was reprooved) from another Cong. invited me to give a Public Talk,...Please advice!!!

  by african GB Member in

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  he invited me about 4 weeks ago, to be a guest speaker in his cong.. should i go ahead?.

  should i tell him about my situation?.

  what's the worst that could happen if my cong finds out about this?.

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  Is it me or is AGB not playing with a full deck?
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  Ralph Heroux Accused Massachusetts Pedophile

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  I heard recently that Ralph goes out in field service? That is SO very disturbing if he is, I have seen him and he gives me the creeps.
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  cliques - a common theme

  by rockmehardplace in

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  i am sure it has been touched on many times before, but as i read trying to catch up on some of the topics over the past few months, i see the word clique jump out on so many occassions.

  why were there so many cliques?

  in the congregration i was in, we had a serious problem with it.

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  There are cliques everywhere, in the workplace, your neighborhood/town and within religious organizations.
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  Mistresses??

  by diana netherton in

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  what are your thoughts on them?

  would i be a simply terrible person if i became one?.

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  Diana you are right no one has walked in your shoes. I personally think some here were a bit harsh but this is the internet and try to let their words rolls off your back. All I was concerned about was your health/safety and you have free will to do what you want. I may not agree but I respect you for being open and trying to get some feedback. Unfortunately when people do not have the whole story they tend to jump to conclusions.
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  Separating the Sheep from the Goats by Barbara Anderson

  by Dogpatch in

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  separating the sheep from the goatsby barbara anderson.

  on freeminds.org at: http://www.freeminds.org/blogs/musings-of-a-watchtower-insider/separating-the-sheep-from-the-goats.html.

  (according to harry peloyan, c. t. russell, j. f. rutherford, and watchtower 1995).

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  CuriousButterfly

  Marked for reading at a later time.
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  Covering your tracks on the computer after visiting JWN

  by Quillsky in

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  i don't have to, fortunately, because i don't share my computer with anyone.. but i've been thinking, with empathy, about those that do.

  how far do you go to stop people realizing that you've been here?

  do you log in and out every time?

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  I always use IE8 for day to day activities and when I started reading JWN I installed Firefox. Plus hubby and I have our own PCs. :)
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  Being A Borg Kid

  by Pig in

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  i never became a zelouse witness, but i do remember being a borg kid.

  there was no one my age at the meetings for most of my childhood.

  except at one stage there was this half in half out family who had a fat annoying kid who never stopped boasting.

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  I can relate a little when it comes to not having *worldy* friends around. We were allowed very limited time with a neighborhood kid, but we were always different. My parents did make sure we has JW friends over all the time and we always were around others. One regret was not being friends with others who were not JWs. Having non JW friends is SO vital to live in the real world. It took time but I am able to interact with co-workers, thank God for my job. I have grown as an adult and employee being around non-JWs.

  Thank you for reflecting it is nice to know others went through similar situations.
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  Mistresses??

  by diana netherton in

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  what are your thoughts on them?

  would i be a simply terrible person if i became one?.

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  If they will cheat WITH you....they'll cheat ON you.

  My exact thoughts!

  She has free will and do what she feels is right. I persoanlly disagree with being a mistress, but to each his own. PLEASE use protection and have him get tested before you start hitting the sheets.