Welcome terafera.
You have a wonderful writing style. I'm sorry to hear how horrible your upbringing was. Now you can persue your life ahead of you. j2bf
Joyzabel
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I'M A NEWBIE! My story...
by terafera ini just came across this site not too long ago and have been reading the stories.
i am filled with relief and at the same time frustration mixed with tears, because i have been holding my story in and not sharing it with anyone, except my husband.
i have felt many of the feelings expressed here but was afraid to say them out loud for fear of being an 'apostate'.
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Joyzabel
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Worried about my Dad in hospital :(
by Simon inwe visited angharad's parents at the weekend and got a call on sunday night from her sister who'd been called by my sister as they hadn't been able to contact us .... the message was not a happy one:.
my dad has had a heart attack and was in intensive care in hospital.. it was a while before i managed to speak to anyone over there with people probably out but i eventually spoke to his wife who says he's doing ok and has now been moved to the main ward but is being kept in as you would expect.
he may have to be moved to calgary for some investigation / tests.. he had heart surgery about 15 years ago and i think 4 of his 5 bypasses have failed so he has to take quite a bit of medicine for pain and stuff.
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Joyzabel
I, too, am sorry to hear about your father, Simon.
I agree with LDH "I don't ever want to look back after they are gone and wish I had loved them differently". This includes the whole family. Hope you have a safe trip. You have done so much for people here and its great to see the outpouring of love to you in return. j2bf -
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The UN and YMCA
by larc inthe un and the ymca,.
according to the wt, the un is the scarlet colored beast of revelation with 7 heads and 10 horns and religions that cooperate with the un are the harlot that rides the beast.
now, despite this belief, the watchtower and bible and tract society decided to take a ride on the beast for ten years.
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Joyzabel
Thanks jawhawk1. I forgot the name of the group. Cute pics! Now, which one is you??? j2bf
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Justice #22 - Legalism or Mercy? - THE END
by Amazing injustice #22 need for mercy in place of rigid legalism.
intro: the account is mostly about two jw men, brother jay and elder dean.
but his two-week vacation pay was under $500.
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Joyzabel
OMG, you made me burst out crying.
It was the subtle things in the congo that we seemed to always be "battleing" about. It's now from those subtle things that life is so sweet and rewarding when we don't have to battle anymore.
Thank you for posting these justice series. They have certainly been soul searching accounts. j2bf
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The UN and YMCA
by larc inthe un and the ymca,.
according to the wt, the un is the scarlet colored beast of revelation with 7 heads and 10 horns and religions that cooperate with the un are the harlot that rides the beast.
now, despite this belief, the watchtower and bible and tract society decided to take a ride on the beast for ten years.
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Joyzabel
I'm sorry I just have to lol @ cellomould, larc.
The song in the 80's, YMCA, by a gay group has left me always laughing at the reference to the Y as a place for gays to meet. Don't take it personal! I'm sure cello didn't mean you, but was just joking. :) j2bf
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An Early "Happy New Year" to Everyone!
by Esmeralda ini know i'm a little early with this but i don't know if i'll have time to post it later...so here is something i assembled just for you all :).
: http://wtsurvivors.homestead.com/fireworks.html.
thanks for all the love, support, and sharing of tears and laughter in 2001. may 2002 be a lot kinder...to all of us.. *hugs* and love.
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Joyzabel
Thanks for checking, Esmeralda. I'm on a public computer at work and it has a big firewall. I'll look at it again when I get home. j2bf
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An Early "Happy New Year" to Everyone!
by Esmeralda ini know i'm a little early with this but i don't know if i'll have time to post it later...so here is something i assembled just for you all :).
: http://wtsurvivors.homestead.com/fireworks.html.
thanks for all the love, support, and sharing of tears and laughter in 2001. may 2002 be a lot kinder...to all of us.. *hugs* and love.
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Joyzabel
Thanks, Esmeralda, but all I saw was a Happy New Year banner. What's suppose to go in those boxes?
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What do you think the Dateline show will do?
by Mulan ini am curious.
does anyone really believe the dateline show will make very many current dubs "wake up" and leave?
do you think it will bring the organization down?
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Joyzabel
I agree, Mulan. The Catholic church went through this several years ago and their membership is still growing. I would hope it would wake some jw minds, but I really don't think it will. They like the box they live in. J2bf
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Why 2 witnesses to a sin?
by kevin221 ini've read several posts lately that define what exactly can or can't get someone in trouble with the jw's and i'm a little confused.
how does the 2 witnesses to a sin thing work?
let me explain why i'm asking.. about 7 years ago a friend of jon's that he has known as a child contacted him via telephone.
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Joyzabel
PS - the need for 2 eyewitnesses is also very convenient for protecting authority figures among JWs who are pedophiles and wife beaters. (Since when do pedophiles and wife beaters seek out an audience??)
Good point Scully.
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New to the board--my story, kind of long
by BQE inmy first name is mirian.
i was born in the bronx, ny in 1963. my parents are natives of puerto rico.
my siblings and i were raised as witnesses.
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Joyzabel
Welcome to the board, BQE.
I used to live over the BQE in the 70s. Became an RN then CNM in the 80s and now out. You most certainly did the right thing to live your own life. I'm sorry you had to suffer the consequences with your family. Hopefully there is still time for your mom & sister to learn about unconditional love.
I will look forward to more of your posts. j2bf