Hi to you too! And good luck at college, I think you may like it.
Josie
Posts by jozb5
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3hi, again.
by forgetmenot ini've decided to start posting again.
no one of any significance probably noticed i was gone, being kind of new here when i left any way.
i have no controversial subjects to bring up, just that i'm lonely and scared, but that's hardly controversial.
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Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP
by Quincy inok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!
good new right?
well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????
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jozb5
Of course it't a lot for a WOMAN to go thru. But this little girl did the deed and now doesn't want to deal with the consequences of her actions.
Josie
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Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP
by Quincy inok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!
good new right?
well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????
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jozb5
Well this is all so sad.
I don't agree with her desicion. There are other ways to handle an unwanted pregnancy and child. I feel sorry for you and terribly sorry for the child who's life will be taken away simplly cause the mother didn't want it.
Josie
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Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP
by Quincy inok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!
good new right?
well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????
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jozb5
Hmmmmm,
Sounds like she's scared and not sure if she's ready to be a mom and also a little immature.
Josie
Edited by - jozb5 on 9 August 2002 16:52:27
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Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP
by Quincy inok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!
good new right?
well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????
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jozb5
Hi, I'm Josie.
You ask for advice, here it is.
I assume this is your girlfriend and I assume you weren't using protection (right?) Don't do that again, because of the situation you find yourself in now. Every sex act has the potential of creating life, no matter what kind of birth control you, use unless you're sterial.
OK - now you and your girl have a baby on the way and she doesn't want to have it. Well quite frankly if she doesn't want to have it you have no power to stop her. So where do you go from here? Because you have said that if she gets rid of the baby it will affect your relationship. Well I would sit down with her and tell her how you feel about it. That you want the baby and if she get rid of it you will never feel the same about her.
If she goes ahead and gets the abortion, you should only pay half. She should be responsible for the other half.
Question: Did you two ever discuss what you would do if and when she ever got pregnant? And how old are you two anyway?
P.S. If she loves you she should be sensitive to your needs and wants too.
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What Was Your Happiest Moment Ever?
by invisible ina reunion perhaps, a party, a beautiful view shared with an equally stunning partner, what was ever, the happiest moment in your life?
how did you find this emotion, exactly what did it feel like, can you remember and perhaps share your sentiments here with the rest of us?
please take us there with you.. celtic mark - cornwall uk.
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jozb5
I have more that one: When I married my dear hubby and when I had each of our kiddies.
Josie
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Ahh, Mother's
by teenyuck inahh, mothers.
reading jozb5s thread on her mother made me think of this.
i recently told my husband and he is even more disgusted with my mother.
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jozb5
Puffs,
I think your and my mom are somehow related. Your comment about how she said you were fat and would never get a man was so close to what I had to go through in high school. Starting at about 11 I started to get very chubby, which my mom couldnt stand, and she would take great joy in make me feel like a fat slob. When I was 13 my mom decided she wanted a family portrait and that we would all wear jeans. Well since I was so chubby she was always saying that she couldnt find me any clothes (she couldnt because she always dragged me to the teen shop which never had anything for chubby girls) and she made me wear some of her old jeans (size 15) and later would brag to people that she was smaller than her 13 year old daughter (she was size 13).
It's not the worst thing she has ever done, but my sister and I feel that she lost interest in us when we got to be pre-teens and when we were teenagers she was down-right hostile and loved to try to play all of us against each other. It's amazing that my siblings and I even talk today because she still tries to play those games, all the while spouting how we need to be closer as a family.
Josie
P.S. She has told me that if my hubby loved me he would tell me to lose weight.
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Ahh, Mother's
by teenyuck inahh, mothers.
reading jozb5s thread on her mother made me think of this.
i recently told my husband and he is even more disgusted with my mother.
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jozb5
Ah geez, that was hard to read.
You know what the sad thing about all this is? I thought for the longest that maybe I was the crazy one. That maybe I just wasn't looking at what my mom did in the right way. Maybe in her own twisted way she really does love me. But the things she has done and said to me and then denied...I don't know. I'm a 37 year old mom of 3 kids and it's still hard to forget.
And then to hear or read what other people do to their kids, it's just all to much sometimes.
Josie
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Excluded. How did/does exclusion make you feel?
by Celtic inmany of you have felt at the sharp end, quite particularly so, social exclusion.
emotionally, how did it make you feel?
celtic mark - cornwall uk
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jozb5
Do you mean exclusion while this being in the organisation?
Growing up was hard because my dad was baptised but never attended the meetings regularly, eventually he stopped going and my mom goes every now and then. And we all know what kind of mark that puts against the family. I can't tell you how many times I had to hear about parties or gatherings or whatevers that happened after the fact that we had not been invited to.
Josie
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They want my kids
by Sadie5 inran into some jws today.
was out to lunch at a restaurant with 2 of my kids.
there were 2 tables full of jws, i wondered what the occasion was.
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jozb5
The arrogance is amazing. They would have your kids disrespect you and disown you. Unbelievable!
What do your kids think about all this?
Josie