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  ok I have a question for anyone who can answer me about this......

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  i divorced my husband for cheating on me that is why i left him.

  i came home from visiting family two days early and found him in bed with someone else.

  i left him but he blamed me for everything and then when i thought i could go back to the kingdom hall they told me that they called my husband and he said he didnt do anything.

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  queenbella

  I divorced my husband for cheating on me that is why i left him. I came home from visiting family two days early and found him in bed with someone else. I left him but he blamed me for everything and then when I thought I could go back to the kingdom hall they told me that they called my husband and he said he didnt do anything. Well, according to the articles that they put out they werent even supposed to do that and it was up to me and God. make a long story short they blamed me for appearing to date my best friend. Said I shouldnt have a close relationship with a man that isnt my husband and I was babysitting his daughter and they said I was using it as an excuse to be with my best friend. Which wasnt the case but I ended up being removed from the congregation which I didnt do anything but they insist I have but yet they keep changing the reason why they d.f.'d me in the first place. It has changed so many times. they wouldnt let me go back my parents were my way there cause I have a neurological disease and I cant drive so they were taking me and then the elders told them that they couldnt do anything for me so I ended up losing everything my apartment my job my everything and the only one that took me in was my best friend and he got removed for hanging around with me. I guess i dont understand the motives when the articles and the bible say one thing and the elders in this congregation does something completely different. I was just wondering if anyone had any insight on this or if you understand what I am talking about. I have been divorce from my husband since 2006 I got removed in 2007 which i thought was odd. I have confessions and witnesses to him admitting to cheating on me and gave them a picture of him and his girlfriend yet they told me it wasnt good enough and then I recently tried to talk to them again and they were like are you staying with your friend still and I was like yeah I have no where else to go and they were like end of discussion and I was like no it isnt. and I showed them tons of proof and they were like I dont know who that is. It is funny cause they should seeing that one of the two elders had dinner at my ex in laws house at least once a month and he told me I could have planted that photo and evidence that i made it up. but I think it is because this elder hates me. Because a couple of other people got divorced and all they had was a letter saying that there husband or wife cheated and they are remarried already. it is confusing to me. Hopefully someone can makes since out of this cause I cant.....And i am not really sure whether I want to go back. I am hurt by what they have done.