Brother Dan - you hit the nail on the head! "They are choosing men in brooklyn that they've never even met over their own children." It's absolutely INSANE! I know what it's like from personal experience. I'm shunned by family. I mean, come on, I'm not a friggin' drug addict or convict. I've never even tried a cigarette for frick's sake! I'm just a mild mannered, clean cut "gay" (shhhh) college professor. I mean, there are families that could do a lot worse than that, right? And there ARE families out there who don't completely reject their children because they happen to be professors...or gay.
Billy -- you are so right. BEAUTIFULLY said as always. But why not talk for a second about bank robbers anyway? (Humor me!). If one of my children grew up to be a bank robber and I knew they robbed a bank, I'd be the first to call the police. Seriously, I'd turn them in if they robbed a bank or hurt someone. But you know what, I'd be at the trial every single day, and move to be near whatever prison they were sent to so I could visit every day. NO WAY could I ever abandon my child no matter what. Never.