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  What's Going on In Quebec? Class action?

  by Slidin Fast in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  according to these news items the child abuse front is extending to quebec.

  a class action would really open some eyes i suspect.

  here's hoping!

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  • there must be common issues; and

  I imagine this might be the biggest hurdle, as the "common" issue is quite debatable. An ideal class action would be based on a pattern of very similar pattern of repeatable behavior by defendant (WT). (E.g., construction workers work daily with a chemical the manufacturer knows causes long-term health issues. However, the company keeps the health risks secret then later denies any liability for the harm caused to workers' health. So in other words, same behavior/action over and over again to a class of people.)

  Yes, all may have been abused, but the circumstances and perceived "mishandling" will likely vary widely. Was it an Elder who abused? Was it an Elder who discouraged/prevented reporting? Was it a baptized person who was the abuser? Was a known abuser appointed, re-appointed, DF'd, not DF'd? Was the abuser a known repeat abuser? Etc., etc., etc....

  Were the WT's actions in response to abuse (or report of abuse) "common" enough across enough individual cases to form a "class"?
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  My Father has brandished me with the "APOSTATE" word for talking about the BIBLE!

  by stuckinarut2 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  so after three years of fading, my elder father has never really asked why we have chosen to stop attending.. today, after a mixed discussion, he starts talking about the "solution to all the world problems" and says "i don't know what you now believe, but i believe gods kingdom will fix everything" i let the comment go, and didn't respond.. then he goes on about the video "remember the wife of lot" because he just came from the convention last weekend.

  "don't get caught up in this system...blah blah".

  i couldn't help myself, and said one thing "dad, that video failed to show the next chapter of that account.

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  So I calmly asked him if he or any of the other elders reported it to the authorities.
  He got irate and said "It is not our place to do that!"

  I asked my elder father than same question and he had the same response. So I asked him, "what if 10-year old Jimmy living next door told you he was being abused, would you call the police?"

  His response: "Well, uh, um, ah...that's different."
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  My Father has brandished me with the "APOSTATE" word for talking about the BIBLE!

  by stuckinarut2 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  so after three years of fading, my elder father has never really asked why we have chosen to stop attending.. today, after a mixed discussion, he starts talking about the "solution to all the world problems" and says "i don't know what you now believe, but i believe gods kingdom will fix everything" i let the comment go, and didn't respond.. then he goes on about the video "remember the wife of lot" because he just came from the convention last weekend.

  "don't get caught up in this system...blah blah".

  i couldn't help myself, and said one thing "dad, that video failed to show the next chapter of that account.

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  Haha! Your story reminds me of something that happened to me.

  A bunch of us were all relaxing (JW = lots of booze) and we ended up on the question of whether the Tree of Life was a literal tree. (SPOILER: WT says no. Genesis 3:22-24 seems pretty clear on the issue.) One of the brothers (an elder at Bethel, no less) who was pretty inebriated dug out the WT reasoning shoving it in my face. When I re-directed him to the verses in the Bible he shouted at me: "I DON'T CARE WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS, I BELIEVE WHAT'S PRINTED IN THE WATCHTOWER! WHAT ARE YOU-- APOSTATE?"

  I calmly stood, grabbed my cocktail, and walked away.

  Side note: they all got so bombed that night, most of them had to stay the night because they were way too drunk to drive.
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  Assembly experiences that strech the truth

  by karter in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  elder and his wife build a flash house.. they go on the stage at an assembly and give an experiences of how they sold the flash house to simplify their life so they can go pioneering.. the real story.. elder and wife can't afford the flash house and have to sell it he never goes pioneering she does until they are declared bankrupt.. why were they bankrupt?.

  the money leaft over from the flash house they invested in a yet to be build apartment and the developer goes bankrupt takeing their money.. just one of many.. karter..

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  Young people who choose to pioneer instead of higher education. I knew they did not even finish high school.

  I always laugh when I hear experiences where gifted Jdub students turn down "full scholarships" to Harvard, MIT, Stanford, etc. I'm I the only one who realizes that these institutions do not offer full scholarships to students out of the blue? These universities require that students APPLY for scholarships. So if they truly were offered a full scholarship, it was because he/she applied for it...and if they didn't apply, then they're likely lying about the whole situation.

  
  
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  The Children Act: The Movie - By Ian McEwan and directed by Richard Eyre

  by darkspilver in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  richard eyre's film adaptation of ian mcewan's book the childen act has it's world premiere at the toronto international film festival in september 2017. the children act.

  emma thompson and stanley tucci star in this adaptation of the novel by ian mcewan, about a high-court judge who finds personal and professional crises colliding when she is asked to rule in the case of a brilliant 18-year-old boy who is refusing the blood transfusion that would save his life.. adapted by booker prize–winning author ian mcewan from his own novel, this riveting drama stars two-time academy award winner emma thompson as a british high court judge tasked with making a decision that will speak to our most fraught questions regarding religious tolerance — and could mean life or death for an innocent young man.. judge fiona maye (emma thompson) is married to her work, which has become a problem for her husband, jack (stanley tucci), who announces that he wants to have an affair.

  treating the matter more as an annoyance than a life-altering crisis, fiona kicks jack out and focuses on her current case.

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  "Apostasy" and "The Children Act"... anyone else think it's remarkable that there are TWO feature length films included at a top tier international film festival that are focused on a tiny Christian sect that makes up far less than 1% of the general population?
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  Kingdom Halls open to hurricane flood victims??

  by Sugar Shane in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  there are other threads dealing with jws actions, or non-actions in response to the houston flooding.

  i started this thread to find out specifically if kingdom halls, or assembly halls are being used to help victims.

  not just other jws, but innocent victims of all walks: men, women, children & pets.

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  There's currently a Reddit thread discussing some JW carts stationed outside one of the shelters. Some interesting comments, for sure.

  https://www.reddit.com/r/houston/comments/6x24eh/to_the_jehovahs_witnesses_preaching_in_front_of/
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  Organizational Accomplishments - Building a Solid Digital Foundation

  by wifibandit in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  organizational accomplishments - building a solid digital foundation.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aai46ng2f74.

  organizational accomplishments—building a solid digital foundation video will be considered the week of september 11, 2017.

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  Haha! This video reminds me of a "behind the scenes" Bethel tour I was part of several years ago. The guide walked us through some offices and conferences rooms ("ooohhhh....ahhhhhh!!! So exciting!!") not on the typical tour path. The guide was especially proud of the spider phone in one of the conference rooms.
  

  The guide acted like it was some super-duper secret advanced technology they'd obtained from NASA or the NSA. Apparently not too many Bethelites have spent time in real world offices in the last, oh let's say, 15 years.

  Every single piece of technology shown in that video has been common place for years, if not over a decade, in most companies in the real world.
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  2018 Circuit Assemblies Talk Outlines

  by wifibandit in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  http://avoidjw.org/en/publications/2018-circuit-assemblies/.

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  "The Law of Christ -- Why Superior?"

  FIRST: THE LAW OF CHRIST IS COMPREHENSIVE—COVERING ALL AREAS OF LIVING (10 min.) The law of Christ has far fewer direct commands than the Mosaic Law The law of Christ emphasizes decision-making based on principles Principles are often much broader than laws and may be applied in numerous situations, making them superior to laws Laws tend to be narrower, specific, and may need to be amended or even replaced over time

  Bahaha! Yeah, sure. It's true that the "law of Christ" may have fewer direct commands...but to make up for it, the WTS comes up with as many "laws" that need to be "amended or even replaced" on a regular basis.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3kZvkDuL-_8
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  Just Offended A JW Cart Witness Without Even Trying

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  on my way into town from my office.

  two carts set up a few feet from each other.

  one manned by a man and woman (i assume they're a couple) in their late 30s.. the guys walks off to the other cart as im walking by, i wasn't going to approach but the woman holding the awake!

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  The man told her "i was talking there, do you mind?" she backed away.

  I would have said, "Wow, you sounded exactly like Jesus just now! I'm sure he's proud of you" and walked away.

  That guy seems like a Grade A jerk.
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  Have you noticed this trend on social media amongst witnesses...?

  by stuckinarut2 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it seems that every 2nd witness often posts pictures of themselves at conventions, or out in 'service'.

  but i have noticed that they never seem to post anything about the actual "spiritual content" of their activity!

  instead, it is pictures of them with their witness "friends", along with some contrite comment like #bestlifeever (arrghhh).

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  It seems that every 2nd witness often posts pictures of themselves at conventions,

  Honestly, I think half the time they're just posting their requisite convention pic on IG to show off how nice their outfit is and troll for compliments.