Okey-dokey, let's see--
Lilacs said:
I am ashamed of you!
Ashamed of me??? For mentioning being forgotten? Sorry, I don't see the shamefulness here but if you think I am shameful, ok.
Lilacs also said:
Doug has not complained.
Well he did mention that hardly anyone cares about him, maybe complain wasn't the right word, you choose.
Lilacs also said:
If you would have read his whole post you would know that, but you assumed, and you know what they say about assuming?
See and I took the time to briefly explain in my last post why I would say what I did. But it seems that you were the one to do the assuming. She assumed I didn't know about Doug's situation and perhaps assumed I didn't already do something about long ago (before there was a big public effort). I didn't take too kindly to being told I shouldn't assume when in fact it was the person addressing me (you) that made some incorrect assumptions. Sorry but it is very simple.
Lilacs, I do not doubt you are a nice person as your friends here say--from what I have seen of you I agree. I do know there were things you didn't know but I made no assumptions and you did. A simple mistake, I hardly take serious offense. Also, could you show me where I "attacked" your "friend"? FYI Doug and I are friends from way back. We've helped each other out before in various ways and I had no intention of attacking him. If you see what I said as an attack you are perhaps the most tender-hearted person on the planet, or you misconstrued my words.
Regards--
Julie