Posts by JW72

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CyberSex

by DreamMaster in

cybersex: real or fantasy!.

i would like to tell you good people a story and when i'm finished i would appreciate your honest opinion as i know you wouldn't give me anything less.

my wife and i have been fighting about a situation which recently arose in our home.

quote: [My question is, when a person has such feelings about their own sexuality, is it always wrong to explore such via porn or cyber-sex?
I think it is wrong if it leads to an actual meeting/affair. But some people have these feeling as little or no outlet for them, and I think they satisfy such curiosities via cyber porn/sex.]

DB, I think it's wrong to be in a heterosexual relationship and THEN find out about being gay, or whatever.
If your finding out about sth. that your partner can share with you, that's fine, but other than that, it's not fair on the partner.

Chris

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CyberSex

by DreamMaster in

cybersex: real or fantasy!.

i would like to tell you good people a story and when i'm finished i would appreciate your honest opinion as i know you wouldn't give me anything less.

my wife and i have been fighting about a situation which recently arose in our home.

JW72

I think the instinctive male desire to 'spread his seed' is so far buried down deep inside us that it doesn't really have any affect any more, or at least, the more intelligent men don't act upon that instinct!!

Like me, for example!!

Chris

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New Congregation

by Deacon in

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ok. we ran a thread recently about starting a new religion.. how about we start an international congregation here on the board.. we need 7 elders.

7 being a sign of perfection..er....yeah.. we need ministerial servants.. appointments will be general concensus..er holy spirit i mean.. p.o.

lets start with him.

JW72

It surprises me how so many people remember bad things that elders and such-like did.

I must have been so blinkered and naive to not notice anything, oh yeh, and BRAINWASHED!!

DUH!!

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Funny thing, religion.....

by JW72 in

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it's not really, but, what can ya do?!.

i was just thinking, is matt 24:14 meant to be taken literally as the dubs do??.

that's my question, someone please answer..... chris.

JW72

It's not really, but, what can ya do?!

I was just thinking, Is matt 24:14 meant to be taken literally as the dubs do??

That's my question, someone please answer....

Chris
(Of the 'I don't wanna do bible study' class)

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CyberSex

by DreamMaster in

cybersex: real or fantasy!.

i would like to tell you good people a story and when i'm finished i would appreciate your honest opinion as i know you wouldn't give me anything less.

my wife and i have been fighting about a situation which recently arose in our home.

JW72

Dream Master, I sympathise with you very much.

I think the important thing to find out here is WHY is she doing what she's doing?

Do you and your wife have a good sexual relationship??

Is she shy about sex, and maybe can be more expressive when it's done over the internet??

I think you can both get through this if you talk with her in a loving way, ask her why she does it.

You may find that she needs more of your attention, or maybe you need to be more adventurous in the bedroom.

I don't want to pry too deep into your love life, I just want to help.

If you love her, it's worth trying what I suggested.

Tell her how bad it makes you feel, and tell her that I and most other guys would feel the same, if she doesn't care then maybe it wont work.

By the way, cyber sex, on a regular basis, is NOT the same as looking at porn, AND YOU KNOW IT!!!!

Couples can look at porn together, it's natural, cyber sex excludes the partner and is much more personal, wake up!!

Chris

Dream master, please contact me, I wanna help.

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Further adventures with Mom

by Mulan in

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yesterday my brother came to visit for the day, so we could visit our stepfather in the nursing home, and our cousin in the hospital, and we went to lunch, and came back to my house, picked up our 87 year old father, who lives with me, and went to visit our 88 year old mother, dad's ex-wife.

they get along great......now!!

all of us are ex dubs, (not mom) and brother dear is df'd, but only for 23 years, ha hahahaha.

JW72

Prisca, I'm really sorry to hear about your mum.

In defence of Mulan, though, the reason it is worse for her, is that her mum CHOOSES to not be with her.

I don't want to be cold about it but that's what I think.

Hugs to Prisca and Mulan

Chris

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FOR THE LOVE OF GOD.......

by JW72 in

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i wonder would christians (jw's included) still serve god if it were god's will for them to die in this world and not live forever?!?!?!!.

if u think like that, it makes u realise just how selfish it all is to believe that!!.

they may say that they would but i doubt it!!!!.

JW72

I realise now the point I was initially trying to make, excuse my slow brain.

The God of the bible requires certain sacrifices that are not included in being a 'nice' person.

I'm sure people can think of quite a few, praying, for example, preaching about him etc (also sexual sacrifices I think).

Now if you want to be nice but don't make those kind of sacrifices, would you still be saved?? Something like that..

Can someone please figure out what I'm trying to say, and explain it to me???

Please.....

Chris

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Another boring observation........

by JW72 in

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i have another boring observation that i thought of.... did incest among animals go on in the garden of eden???.

if it did not, surely adam would have felt strange about the inevitable incest his offspring were to commit!!!.

please shed some light someone...... chris

JW72

Hi everyone!!

I have another boring observation that I thought of...

Did incest among animals go on in the garden of eden???

If it did not, surely Adam would have felt strange about the inevitable incest his offspring were to commit!!!

Please shed some light someone.....

Chris

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BACK TO BASICS!!!.......

by JW72 in

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i have a problem with the whole beginning of the bible.. if i was an angel of god, and i was only exposed to really positive ways of life, god was 100% positive.. the last thing i would think about is turning my back on him.. where did lucifer get his negative way of thinking from???.

surely, if you are in god's company, it's gonna rub off on you that being nice is the way of life!!!.

it does not make sense that he should turn into the absolute evil that he is!!!!.

JW72

What?!

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BACK TO BASICS!!!.......

by JW72 in

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i have a problem with the whole beginning of the bible.. if i was an angel of god, and i was only exposed to really positive ways of life, god was 100% positive.. the last thing i would think about is turning my back on him.. where did lucifer get his negative way of thinking from???.

surely, if you are in god's company, it's gonna rub off on you that being nice is the way of life!!!.

it does not make sense that he should turn into the absolute evil that he is!!!!.

JW72

I have a problem with the whole beginning of the bible.

If I was an angel of God, and I was only exposed to really positive ways of life, God was 100% positive.

The last thing I would think about is turning my back on him.

Where did Lucifer get his negative way of thinking from???

Surely, If you are in GOD's company, it's gonna rub off on you that being nice is THE WAY OF LIFE!!!

It does NOT make sense that he should turn into the ABSOLUTE EVIL that he is!!!!

Secondly, Eve!!!

Why would she eat the fruit?? Did she not question Satan's intentions for wanting her to be powerful??

Was she not thankful to God for creating her???

None of this makes sense, until someone makes sense of it for me, I CANNOT believe the FUNDAMENTALS!!!

Please soothe my throbbing brain....

Chris

Aaaaahhhh, I remembered, did Eve not think, wait there, if God didn't want me to eat this fruit, why the HELL did he leave it here in the first place?????