All I know for sure, is that the dubs care how
they measure-up in their friends eyes.
I've heard a lot of them say........
"Even if they (organization) are wrong, I would
never leave ........I love all the brothers!"
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When I joined this outfit ....our names, & the hours,
placements & studies, were posted on a hugely
conspicuous bulletin board at back of the hall.....
geeze you could see this thing 40 paces away!!!
I found this to be the choke-hold to force participation.
In fact, I never realized until looking at that list, that I
was now obligated to keep up with the norm...or else be
hated by 'the friends'
Maybe the list is coming back.
clarity