This is so disgusting - it has made me literally sick.
Why do they insist on picking on women who are already beaten down, humiliated, broken?
How many women are sitting in the KH, trying to hide their bruises and their shame, praying to Jah constantly to save them, praying for direction...
How many women will take this article as a sign to keep their heads down and keep taking it?
And what of their children, who will be irreparably damaged by growing up in this house.
I grew up with a close family member who's non-believing husband beat her and her children senseless.
I saw him kick her like a dog right in front of me. I remember my family helping her and her children hide because she was afraid he was finally going to kill them.
After years, she finally left but the damage was done. Her children were destroyed. After she left him, he became a JW. She took him back, because we know most abuse women look for reasons to forgive their aggressor. It's part of the mental programming.
Guess what? He continued beating her, he just took a break to attend the 5 meetings this time around. I remember seeing her teenaged son throw himself on top of his mother to protect her, and watching him getting kicked over and over again, but he refused to move. He took the beating to protect his mother.
Her children are now grown. One killed himself (the one mentioned above) and 2 are abusive alcoholics.
I pray to God my family reads this and wakes up.