I've always been curious about this. It seems to be different per locality and even congregation. I was DF'd in '80, re-instated '83 and DA'd '93. In that time my parents have flip-flopped. My dad has been an elder/PO since '72 in VERY conservative congo's. They took me in back in the early '80's when I totally augered in drugs and what not. They always check up on me (I talk to them at least every couple of weeks). Whenever I go to their house there is always a gin and tonic made for me... although nothing to eat. I think it's the "do not break bread" thing. But gin's ok. Both of my parents have been to my houses over the years. BUT... there have been changes from time to time that I'm sure are attributable to doctrinal changes or pressure. My dad actually called me recently to apologize for not being very friendly when I visited them.
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How did your family tell you to bug off? no contact, etc...
by carla ini am just wondering about what the usual method for jw's to tell you to get the heck out of their life until you shape up and come back to jah routine?.
one more question- let's say someone decided to go back but were possibly df'd, da'd or even just rumored to be an apostate, now they come back and they sit in the back and generally get treated like crap until the elders say their 'time out' is over.
can the family talk to them while they are in the dog house so to speak or do they have to wait until the elders give the ok?
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Bridgestone Blizzak WS70 Winter Tires
by Simon inso, after 3 and a bit winters in canada i finally invested in a set of winter tires.
up till now i've had a good set of all-seasons (goodyear assurance tripletred) and they have been very good even coping with a sudden calgary freeze last winter that saw accordian buses sliding back down the hill we were on (scary!
) and general chaos on the roads.. but, driving on the deerfoot on solid polished sheets of black-ice in rush-hour traffic is not nice and you could feel the car getting more than a little vague at times.
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Thanks for the advice. I usually go to Les Schwab and tell them I want studded tires and I want to see nothing but sparks and cement dust. Unfortunately it is hell on the roads. I'm going to give these a try.
BTW. I spent the winter in Calgary back in '98. That's where I learned that the old saying "it's too cold to snow" is BS. I realized this when I went to cross a street, 40 below and I could barely see the streetlight through the snow that was moving horizontally. I was impressed with the way Calgary handles it. I guess you either get tough (and smart) or die.
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JW Shunning is pissing me off
by Hairyhegoat indisfellowshipping versus shunning.
the point of this commentary will be to show that the watchtower society's shunning doctrine does not adhere to the bible.
further, an understanding of congregational practices of first-century christians in the jewish culture is necessary for a proper understanding of the scriptures on this matter.. the primary scripture for consideration is:.
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Wow, man... I understand your anger. Your first sentence is relating JW doctrine with the Bible. They do NOT relate. Don't let it consume you as a person or it will kill you. Put the lights up enjoy the season. Your relatives are just adapting to the latest whipsaw doctrine. I've been dealing with it for 30 years (my Father has been an elder since ~'72). The rules have changed recently as near as I can tell. My Mom takes my calls but Dad is always busy. Wasn't that way this summer.
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How effective the internet is in preventing the spread of the Lie
by dgp ini wonder if there is a way to know just how effective the internet has been in preventing people from joining the watchtower.
in my personal case, it did a lot; it was, i would say, crucial.
maybe i would have bought into this if i hadn't done some googling myself.
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The internet and particularly this site saved me from going back. When I re-married my wife was interested in my old religion. She started studying and we started going to meetings (I had disassociated many years earlier). It was around 2000 that I started researching the net for all things JW. After discovering the UN flap, the blood issue in Bulgaria and the multitude of doctrinal changes since I left I could never go back again. Luckily my wife lost interest on her own.
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The best (& the worst) Halloween candy?
by serenitynow! ini've never celebrated halloween but i know what candy i would have wanted.
hershey bars, reese's cups, peppermint patties.. the worst for me would be mary janes, squirrels, any maple flavoured candies.
sometimes the expensive, exotic candies are the worst!
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SN,
No, believe it or not we didn't get egged. It was the mid-sixties in a small town. How things have changed. Do that nowadays and the house would get set on fire by the Awake's.
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The best (& the worst) Halloween candy?
by serenitynow! ini've never celebrated halloween but i know what candy i would have wanted.
hershey bars, reese's cups, peppermint patties.. the worst for me would be mary janes, squirrels, any maple flavoured candies.
sometimes the expensive, exotic candies are the worst!
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badcompany
I know the worst. One year when I was about 10 I spent Halloween in town with a JW friend. When the trick or treaters came (by the hundreds) we would open the door and say here's something better than candy!And hand them the latest Awake... We were thrilled because we placed scores of mag's that night. The next morning we got to pick up all the Awakes off the lawn. And place them again!
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Someone Please PM me a link to the New Elder Book
by foolsparadise ini am interested in the new rules this cult will try and brainwash elders with.
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badcompany
Just google this: shepherding the flock of god download
Bingo...
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Nostalgia
by d indoes anybody here feel nostalgic for old tv and cartoons.it seems that with time televsion has gone down hill.i rember cartoons of the 90's and i see what is on tv now and i just lose interest, does anybody feel like that at times?
i know i do..
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badcompany
I heard that too. Can't wait! I've gotten rid of my satellite dish and just have cable for internet. I'm pure historical TV when I do bother to watch (except NFL which you can get live HD for free on the internet). I don't see the point in DirectTV anymore...800 channels and nothing on. Hulu has it all.
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Flock book F-Bomb - do the r&f know?
by laverite inare the rank and file generally catching wind of the f bomb (you know -- the flock book's leaking and world wide distribution)?
what have you heard?.
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After what happened to last one I wonder if they will change the rules and tell them NOT to write anything in it.
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Flock book F-Bomb - do the r&f know?
by laverite inare the rank and file generally catching wind of the f bomb (you know -- the flock book's leaking and world wide distribution)?
what have you heard?.
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OMG... nobody interested. Just tell a JW friend to google the title. I'm am stunned. It's friggin' everywhere. Now I understand why my elder father is using the computer I set up for him as a door stop. I wonder when owning a computer will become brazen conduct?