just my 2 cents : I agree with blondie, but in this case I think it is a bit more then that. Listen to an active JW parent talk about how they are raising their children......you would think we have presants and parties every day. But the reality is quite diffrent regardless of how loved or joyful our parents make it.
out of 19 or so kids how many will be gay? how many girls wanna wear pants? or dance? like seriously they can not even kiss before marriage. there will be some serious saddness for at least one of the duggar children who WILL at one point act out (or just be who they are ) and will have to go thru not living up to their parents high control religious beliefs. There will at the very least be tears, trauma and heartache ... pointless stupid heartache.