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  Dating

  by d in

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  as a ex jw i am cyncial to dating perhaps because i did not do much dating as a jw.

  do any of you still feel this way?

  i am not against dating but i am still that dating and getting yourself emontionallt attached is sort of a way of being in chains..

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  I do too I love and respect women but I feel that many would look at me and scream and run the other. I recently asked a girl out and she just walked away.
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  Dating

  by d in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  as a ex jw i am cyncial to dating perhaps because i did not do much dating as a jw.

  do any of you still feel this way?

  i am not against dating but i am still that dating and getting yourself emontionallt attached is sort of a way of being in chains..

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  i want to date but feel that it would be too much of a burden for me and it would distract me.
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  Dating

  by d in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  as a ex jw i am cyncial to dating perhaps because i did not do much dating as a jw.

  do any of you still feel this way?

  i am not against dating but i am still that dating and getting yourself emontionallt attached is sort of a way of being in chains..

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  True I guess I function as a solo indivdual.
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  Dating

  by d in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  as a ex jw i am cyncial to dating perhaps because i did not do much dating as a jw.

  do any of you still feel this way?

  i am not against dating but i am still that dating and getting yourself emontionallt attached is sort of a way of being in chains..

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  thanks for the advice. I do not know why I get so bent around women especially beautiful ones. I just can not compose around them.
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  Dating

  by d in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  as a ex jw i am cyncial to dating perhaps because i did not do much dating as a jw.

  do any of you still feel this way?

  i am not against dating but i am still that dating and getting yourself emontionallt attached is sort of a way of being in chains..

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  True But it is hard to overcome my Jw fear of women. I fear them not in a literal sense but more sense in that my social akwardness does me in. I also fear that in many ways I am just not in their league. I feel defeated around women. I see a pretty female and tell myself she would rather stick forks in her eyes then go out with a guy like myself.So I just let her pass and go on my seperate way and let her leave.

  But I feel that once a women meets me I can be nice guy but it is okay I can always just pursue my studies which is best for me at this time.
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  Dating

  by d in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  as a ex jw i am cyncial to dating perhaps because i did not do much dating as a jw.

  do any of you still feel this way?

  i am not against dating but i am still that dating and getting yourself emontionallt attached is sort of a way of being in chains..

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  I need advice and help with overcoming with facing my fear of women.
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  Dating

  by d in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  as a ex jw i am cyncial to dating perhaps because i did not do much dating as a jw.

  do any of you still feel this way?

  i am not against dating but i am still that dating and getting yourself emontionallt attached is sort of a way of being in chains..

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  I can try but I feel that I maybe setting myself up for failure.
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  Dating

  by d in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  as a ex jw i am cyncial to dating perhaps because i did not do much dating as a jw.

  do any of you still feel this way?

  i am not against dating but i am still that dating and getting yourself emontionallt attached is sort of a way of being in chains..

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  I agree I hate letting someone else into my lives and entangle me with their emontions. I feel at times people are in relationships are really in chains.
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  Dating

  by d in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  as a ex jw i am cyncial to dating perhaps because i did not do much dating as a jw.

  do any of you still feel this way?

  i am not against dating but i am still that dating and getting yourself emontionallt attached is sort of a way of being in chains..

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  I agree I a do fear commitment because I see it as binding I see too many people I know end up in bad relationships or divorced.So I told myself that I would not put myself in such a position.Better it is to be single then it is to be in chains.
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  Are You Comfortable With Who You Now Are?

  by minimus in

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  many jws are misfits and many that were raised as jws find it difficult to be "normal".

  are you comfortable with yourself at this point in time?.

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  Yes however I am nore cyncial now.