give her a gift call it w2hat you want.. this xmas I told my jw dad i got him a gift. I came over the house and gave everyone else a gift, then told him he can't have one b/c he hates xmass. he looked like he was going to cry, after an hour of watching him Pine. I told him i thing there is something at the bottom of the bag for him. he ran for the bag I could tell he was happy just to get underwear... told him it was on sale. funny he always calls me on my bday and takes me out. he knows the deal, he's the only jw in the family, so he gets over on the wt rules