I was told by 2 different elders in 2 differant congergations. They cannot help my mom if she has family. Does not matter if they are a 1,000 miles away. Individuals can help if they want to, but the elders will not ask or try to make arrangements if the person has family. After being a JW for over 50 yrs, NO ONE in my moms con. could find the time to take her to the store, doctor, haircuts , or a home cooked meal. NOT ONE PERSON !!!!
It's all going to be on you. My ex MIL ( JW ) put her hubby ( not a JW ) in a nice Catholic assisted living place. It was like $550 a month, the nuns cleaned his appartment, washed his clothes, and cooked 3 meals a day. The food was great. Tell your mom, if she does not stop with her cult talk, when she is old enough (SS ) that is where she is going. That should shut her up !!! lol JW will do nothing for her