Posts by punkofnice

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JWperfectmatch is a dating site for Genuine Jehovah's Witnesses.

by JWpMatch in

jwperfectmatch is a dating site for genuine jehovah's witnesses.. on jwperfectmatch, our goal is to bring together active members of the congregation of jehovah's witnesses worldwide, interested in building a friendship or an authentic loving relationship in a safe and clean environment.

jwperfectmatch is a site designed exclusively for single jehovah's witnesses.

it will help you to find someone who meets your expectations and shares your same values, principles, love, and obedience to jehovah.visit us!

punkofnice

I want to see a Grindr for JWs!

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What’s Your Prediction For Covid & Its Consequences?

by minimus in

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will we close down again?

will we be masked forever?

will we be required to get vaccinated over and over again?

punkofnice

One thing is for sure; since the Rona and lockdowns, I no longer trust any stats or figures we're told. It's like reading the Watchtower all over again. Makes me puke!

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On the current migrant crisis

by LoveUniHateExams in

thousands of migrants have come to england this year, already beating last year's total.. some may have fled syria and other war-torn countries; others are economic migrants.. let me try to get my head around this phenomenon: migrants are relatively safe in france and other countries.

they then leave the relative safety of continental europe and risk their lives and that of their children by crossing the english channel in rubber dinghies.

there's just no fixing stupid, is there .

punkofnice

Righty - Ex JW. This website is a disappointment after I used it when I was leaving 10 years ago.

Hello, righty. I hope all is well with you.

Tell us more about your JW experiences and stuff, it's far more interesting that politics. Why not start a thread about when you were a Jobo?

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I'm now turned off by this site

by purrpurr in

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in one form or another i've been a member of this site for almost 10 years.

in the past this was a great place for debate, news and support for ex jws.

i logged on several times a day and posted several times a week.

punkofnice

just fine. I think the process of waking up was so much different 20 years ago.

This is true. Back in the day, there was only Crisis of Conscience and 30 years a Watchtower slave to read. But who in the bOrg would dare own such books?

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Striving for more

by punkofnice in

i hate my life!

i have to say it, but i do.. i have a sneaking suspicion that because i was raised in the dangerous jehovah borgness cult, that this is the reason.

i was told if god didn't watch me masturbating or smoking, then he'd let me live forever in perfect conditions.. i left the borg and as a result my jw wife left me and re-married another gung ho jobo.

punkofnice

Stan the man - any plans for when you are retired ?

Not a scooby, mate.

A campervan and bugger off into the sunset?

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Striving for more

by punkofnice in

i hate my life!

i have to say it, but i do.. i have a sneaking suspicion that because i was raised in the dangerous jehovah borgness cult, that this is the reason.

i was told if god didn't watch me masturbating or smoking, then he'd let me live forever in perfect conditions.. i left the borg and as a result my jw wife left me and re-married another gung ho jobo.

punkofnice

Stan the man - Thanks for the offer but I don't need anyone anymore. No other person on the planet can validate me. Co-dependency isn't for me, I have to say. Maybe it never was, but due to the way society is, I thought I had to conform to having a life partner. As for soul mate, give me a break!

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Striving for more

by punkofnice in

i hate my life!

i have to say it, but i do.. i have a sneaking suspicion that because i was raised in the dangerous jehovah borgness cult, that this is the reason.

i was told if god didn't watch me masturbating or smoking, then he'd let me live forever in perfect conditions.. i left the borg and as a result my jw wife left me and re-married another gung ho jobo.

punkofnice

Thank you Simon. I am luckier than many people and I play in a well respected local band now. Perhaps I will get that Stately home, country cottage or apartment in Ontario one day.

TBN - thanks for your encouragement. I recently obtained a copy of the Tao te ching. My search for meaning continues.

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Hello

by allieoakley in

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friends

it's nice to meet you all.

i have been awake since i was a child and i am thinking about leaving jehovahs witnesses soon.

i am looking for some new friends because i know i will lose the ones i have.. my question is, how did your spouse react when you left?

punkofnice

Hello, Allie -

My question is, how did your spouse react when you left?

The cow left me and got married again to a jobo.

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Prince Andrew, the Walls are Closing In

by Simon in

one thing i've learnt over the years is to read between the lines.. that means reading statements carefully.. if you have never met someone, would you say "i have never met them" or would you say "i don't remember ever meeting them"?.

the latter is just a get-out out in case evidence is presented that you did in fact meet them, because there is a photo of you with your arm around them in the upstairs of a pedo's friends, girlfriends house, which you also claim you never went to.. what will happen if the us jails a uk royal?

who knows.. before then i just hope he does another of those "utterly convincing" bizarre interviews to "prove" how he couldn't have done it because he is incapable of sweating (cut to photo of sweating andrew).

punkofnice

To quote George Carlin, '...it's a big club and you aint in it!'

There remains a 2 tier system, I believe. One rule for them and another for us.

If Prince Andrew is a sweaty nonce, he'll escape justice because he's one of the elites that no Judge will condemn on fear of reprisals. If some working class bloke from a council estate (the projects to my American cousins), in Nottingham had done this, they'd be sent to HMP Whatton pronto.

Phizzy is correct IMHO -

the Establishment will pull every string, and call in every favour and utilise every dirty trick that they can to make sure he does not face a Court.

...but they wouldn't do it for you!

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Striving for more

by punkofnice in

i hate my life!

i have to say it, but i do.. i have a sneaking suspicion that because i was raised in the dangerous jehovah borgness cult, that this is the reason.

i was told if god didn't watch me masturbating or smoking, then he'd let me live forever in perfect conditions.. i left the borg and as a result my jw wife left me and re-married another gung ho jobo.

punkofnice

I hate my life! I have to say it, but I do.

I have a sneaking suspicion that because I was raised in the dangerous Jehovah Borgness cult, that this is the reason. I was told if god didn't watch me masturbating or smoking, then he'd let me live forever in perfect conditions.

I left the bOrg and as a result my JW wife left me and re-married another gung ho jobo. I now do not...nay, cannot, believe there is a god or anything after this life. I'm less than 3 years away from retirement and my life is drab.

I live alone and have become rather disassociated from the idea of having a romantic partner. The very idea has become silly to me. I don't need anyone to validate me.....and yet.....ah, I dunno.....

I feel like I should be able to attain something magnificent. A stately home as a substitute for what the Watchtower conned me into believing.. A toff life-style. Yes, I do think this is a substitute for 'eternal life on a paradise Earth (TM)'.

I was indoctrinated to believe 'better must come' (a good reggae song, Delroy Wilson if I recall), and now I know it won't.

I have written books including the JW interviews, but now removed them from Amazon because, what's the point? I just feel let down and weary with it all.

Does any of this make any sense? Anyone else felt/feel the same?

Thanks for listening. Paul.