Posts by Sabin

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Where are you from?

by BeautifulMind in

jw
friends

i know we are all anonymous for our own personal reasons, so i understand if you would rather not say.

but if you don't mind sharing that would be cool.

i currently live in georgia, usa.

New Watchtower Propaganda and hate speech destroying families (Feb 2016 WT)

by Daniel1555 in

the following is a paragraph from the new february study watchtower article "learn from jehovah's loyal servants.".

7 a conflict of loyalties may arise when a close relative is disfellowshipped.

for example, a sister named anne [1] received a telephone call from her disfellowshipped mother.

Sabin

That she had cut HERSELF off from the family. WOW!

Dear Brothers at the WTBTS

I am doing really good

Learning lots of new things now

I no longer have nightmares or cry during the day

I don't complain about my pain

I remember how much you don't like that

I must be happy perpetually

You slapped that in to me, to make me strong spiritually

I think it worked for a time

I am wearing my hair how I want to

I wear pants a lot because I'm allowed to

Isn't that funny, that I couldn't before

You say people like me are a burden

Bet your glad you don't have to speak to me

I'm supposed to put myself first sometimes, I kind of like it

I still get a big hole in my tummy When I think I've done something wrong

I have a saying on my wall

" I can make mistakes, it's o.k."

I try to remember it every day

Sometimes I even believe it

I wonder if you ever think about me, even though I know your glad I'm gone

I never want to see you again, I love you all.

The narcissistic personality of this cult means that they are literally incapable of showing an ounce of humility or compassion they will always heap the blame on the people they victimize because they do not see truth, speak truth or hear truth, it is ironic that they claim to be in the truth. They feel no shame because they do not know love. No matter how much we jump up & down we cannot change this simple fact, the fact being they are 100% NARCISSISTIC.

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Suicide or Real Freedom? - My Story As One Of Jehovah's Witnesses

by dubstepped in

"sometimes i think the only thing i could do that wouldn't upset someone would be to kill myself.".

those were the frustrated words of my friend as we stood out in his large yard in the country, just about to enjoy a nice bonfire on a beautiful night.

what was it that could have been a lesser evil than killing himself?

Sabin

Dubstepped. WOW! that was such a wonderful read & I love the pic of you & your beautiful wife at the end. You have an amazing journey ahead of you my friend enjoy. Big Hug for you both.

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Almost Hooked

by Yawritergrl in

back at the end of last year my now ex got what he thought was a printed form letter from a woman at a kh down the street from us.

i insisted it was handwritten.

a few days go by and i decided to write this woman back.

Sabin

Hello Yawritergrl, it is very nice to meet you. JW are not in the main bad people & I dare say this woman would have continued to be your friend all the time you made progress in your studies with her. Lucky for you, you didn't get dunked & then come out gay as you would have been kicked out & shunned by the very person who spent all this time having cosy chats with you over coffee. You will have to make new friends my dear that's all there is to it. I know this comes as a big blow but JW while truly believing that they have others best interest at heart do not do the whole friendship thing. It is a dog eat dog religion & you don't always realise this until your the one they are taking a bite out of. There are lots of wonderful people in the world who will love you just the way you are.

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Need advice

by Darkknight757 in

hi.i've been pouring over this site for the past few days looking for some advice and i hope there is someone here that can help a guy out.

i'm desperate.....short bio: i came into the organization after high school and shortly after married a wonderful girl who was born-in.we have been happily married now for nearly 20 years and things were well until 2015 hit.

by the way, i currently serve as an elder and have the ""privilege"" of being the "watchtower overseer".. either here nor there, we were told we would never have children but late last year my wife became prego!!

Sabin

Hello Darknight, it is so nice to meet you. You & your wife obviously have a very loving relationship, that is the most positive thing here. The trust she has for you will be essential to her waking up to the Borg. The others here are right you have a perfectly good reason for stepping aside (not down) so go for it. The time you gain spend with your wife, go for drives to no-where so she can just talk, walk & hold her hand, have a weekly movie night & watch happy films ect. You get the idea, build even more on the trust you already have.

The loss of two, wow, you both sound very brave individuals. Your wife sounds like an amazing woman. The emotional strain for her must be huge, I think the most helpful thing for you both would be to seek out a good Psychologist, you are not required to tell anyone that your doing this, it is personal to you & your wife. You may go together or alone or separately there are no fixed rules. A woman may prove to be the best bet for your wife. Most people can say sorry or give advise which we are all doing here however speaking to a trained professional who will listen as you pour yourself out can really help in the healing process & you can be sure that it will go no further. Go talk to your GP, they usually have good recommendations. BIG HUG for you both. Sabin.

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Why Do You No Longer Believe in God?

by Tenacious in

i know this question has popped up from time to time but i really would like to know how you guys, those that no longer believe, came to that conclusion?

was it the wts and all its crap?

was it something you read?

Sabin

So are you saying that you believe in survival of the fittest? Natural selection?

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Yearbook - will they drop figures that show a decline?

by freddo in

do you think the yearbooks will stop showing negative information as the numbers stagnate or even drop?

Sabin

They have never shown negative info about themselves in the past why would the start now. Anything negative applies to everybody else, never the borg.

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How Cultish are the JW's?

by xjwsrock in

first off, i certainly agree the jw's are a cult.

but i'm sensitive to black-and-white thinking now.. so, where do they rank on the scale?

think of a cultish religion scale from 0-10.. consider the likes of unitarian universalism vs baptist vs amish vs charles manson.. where do you think jw's fall on the scale?.

Sabin

You know I had a thought (dangerous I know) . When they calculate how destructive an earthquake is I believe they go on how many lives it has claimed first, before damage & cost, also in that cost would be the psychological trauma for those still alive.

You have to now consider not only literal life but also psychological. So a person die's from saying no to blood is one, the trauma caused to the family is many. A person commits suicide is one, the trauma caused to the family is many. ETC. you get my point.

So if we go from say the last 100 years you would be looking at a 9 possibly a full 10. We shouldn't calculate something like a cult on our own experiences but should take into account everyone involved.

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Redefining "fair"

by wifibandit in

in light of all the reassignments, i can't help but feel that this directed to those who gave their lives and now are being kicked out.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8uou-fbkg0y.

Sabin

WTF! Are they for real. When do they ever apply this to themselves.

Never flatter or put on a false front. I say again WTF!

Do they not realise there is a big difference between fairness & justice.

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I love astronomy!!! It's the coolest!!

by DATA-DOG in

too bad it blows the gb's dogma of a 6,000 year old human race out of the water, as does science in general.

lol!!

ancient structures were often built to align with celestial bodies.

Sabin

DD, they got a new globe out, during the day it's the world, at night when you switch it on it show's all the constellation's. You would love it. It look's so pretty in the picture. I think they sell it in the National Geographic shop.