Big Big Big Big Big HUG for you & your husband. It will seem over whelming at times but I promise it gets better better better. I was reading your story & they have just knocked on the door it's funny i haven't been to the hall for a couple of years but I still got up & ran to my husband for emotional protection, so I am so happy that your husband is right beside you it makes it so much easier when your man just puts his arms around you & says " it's o.k. baby I got your back." Always keep that in mind it will help you to keep positive.
Posts by Sabin
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92Only a few days ago I was entirely lost and without hope the rug was pulled out from under me
by elderess inonly a few days ago i was walking around the house in a mindless wander thinking if i needed to seek professional help.
then i got the courage to seek the comfort of complete strangers on the internet and found a world of support here on this website.
thank you simon and whoever else has made this website possible.
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Gossiping
by Sabin inso last night we had some friends around for dinner, (not jw) & it was a really wonderful evening.
we talked about a variety of subjects, just had a laugh & drunk wine & beer.
this morning my husband & i were talking about how nice it was, how free we felt with our opinions.
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So last night we had some friends around for dinner, (not JW) & it was a really wonderful evening. We talked about a variety of subjects, just had a laugh & drunk wine & beer. This morning my husband & I were talking about how nice it was, how free we felt with our opinions. Then he said, "That is why JW's gossip all the time, it's because their conversation is so limited. You are afraid that you may watch the wrong movie or say the wrong thing maybe slip up with a swear word & then you become the subject of gossip. Maybe they will run back to the elders & there will be a marking talk on you". Well I think he may be right, cause really your whole conversation should centre on talking about the Borg,if it doesn't then you must be spiritually weak, not good association.
What do you think, why so much malicious gossiping?
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Memorial campaign with videos??
by BeautifulMind ingood morning from the east coast.
i have a question.
a friend of mine texted me and one of the things she said was that they were getting a lot of great responses with the campaign because they are showing the video.
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Sabin
This is all BS, what Respectful Observer said is more to the truth. The only thing they are interested in is the monthly report, who in the cong participated in doing the 30 hours (pioneer) they read them out & make the rest of the ones who cant do it feel like crap. Nowhere in the gospels did Jesus require a number of monthly hours. When you listen to them that is all they talk about. Who is pioneering. I think it is an insult to Jesus that that is their main concern.
"Oh Jehovah, Jehovah, didn't I go out during memorial season & do my 30 hours when so many others didn't . See I deserve everlasting life."
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JW Child Abuse Documentary
by cappytan inhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulswb2avxvc.
let's set aside our differences for the moment and appreciate this excellent documentary cedars put together that should prove to be an invaluable tool in helping to expose the child abuse issues in the organization.. i was humbled to be able to help with this project on such an important subject, though my part in it was insignificant..
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This should be put on national t.v. so the public at large can see it more readily. It was so well done. Thank for sharing cappytan.
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Ladies: Circumcision or not?
by Wonderment inthe topic of circumcision has been brought up a few times recently.
then i wondered... .
how do women really view circumcision?
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Scary21, no it was a group in America & they had some kind of guru who took the lead. It was years ago now. More recently on Hamish & Andy I saw some Asians strapping weights to their bollocks & lifting them up to strengthen the muscles so they could last longer. The things men do with their privates it's a wonder they don't drop off. -
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Jehovah's Witnesses: A Clear Decline
by Hadriel init is rather clear that the internet is to put it mildly, wrecking the world of the watchtower bible & tract society.
if not for foreign language i doubt there would be much growth at all.. digital trends and analytics are very real.
i live this analytics world i assure you to some degree you can take it to the bank.
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Hadriel, when the numbers go up it is Jah's holy spirit making it grow, when the numbers go down it's Jah's holy spirit clearing out the crap & refining the cong. They always got a bloody answer. They told to many porky pies & they are being caught out. -
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Got in a bad wreck.....uuugh
by brandnew injust happy to be alive....can barely move ☺.. a girl who just got her license , and a new suv....thought it might be cool to pass the person in front of her....at a curve......on a two way road!!!!!😠😠😠.
very mad puppy.
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WOW, BrandNew, that is definitely one ride I could straddle!
The Harley's not bad either. LOL.
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Ladies: Circumcision or not?
by Wonderment inthe topic of circumcision has been brought up a few times recently.
then i wondered... .
how do women really view circumcision?
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Scary21, I watched a doco on this, men were putting weights (tapping them) on to the end of their dicks & swinging then back & forth to make the skin come down over the head again. Why, because they said not having the foreskin over the helmet made it lose some of it's softness & therefore less sensitive. I don't know how true it is, I suppose it would have to vary man to man. -
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Got to love an illustration
by Sabin inhave you noticed how the gb loves to use illustrations to help every-one understand a point they are trying to get across.
well i love illustrations to.
so here is one for your arses.
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Have you noticed how the GB loves to use illustrations to help every-one understand a point they are trying to get across. Well I love illustrations to. So here is one for your arses. What is the one thing that the JW's bang on about all the time ? Preaching, & the purpose is to TEACH. So the Borg is kinda like a big school, a.
Headmaster = GB.
Deputy head = The department overseers.
Year leaders = The bethels around the world.
Teachers = DO/CO/Elders.
Classroom assistants = MS.
Teachers pets = Pioneers.
Pupils = Rank & file.
Now the HeadMaster wants his school to do well, wants his pupils to get the best out of their education, the teachers to be happy in their work, & of course to get Government funding. He will also have fundraising days/activities organized so as to purchase better equipment for the pupils to enjoy & future generations to come. Whats wrong with that? I hear you say, NOTHING.
However if I was to tell you that the Headmaster knew that his teachers were molesting the children, & refused to do anything about it because the reputation of the school might be damaged & they might lose that Government funding. Plus some parents may pull their kid's out. What would you say to that. What would the public say? what would the Government say? What would the RAC say?. I bet if you were to tell a JW about such a School they would quickly condem that Headmaster & his teachers & in doing so would be condemning the GB & the Borg, because really don't they just fit that description.
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Disfellowshipping
by Sabin ini used to think (having been d myself, when younger) that it was a loving arrangement set up by a loving god to keep the congregation clean, & to give the unrepentant wrong doer time out to think about what they had done.
when ready they could come back, apologize & all is forgiven.
what a first class clown i was.
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No Zeb unfortunately she threw it away. She cried when she told me about though & as I knew the horrible cow that wrote it I absolutely believe her.