Rockhound,
LOL You got it!
Did that say "Do not just follow the crowd?" or "Great crowd"?
the august 22, 1978
awake!
published the article "do others do your thinking?
Rockhound,
LOL You got it!
Did that say "Do not just follow the crowd?" or "Great crowd"?
absolutely gutted tonight......got in from work and my sisters dog "lady" had just passed away.
i missed her literally by 5 minutes.
she hadn't been ill and had been out for a walk this morning as usual, when my sister came in from work she was just laid in her basket, but was barely alive, fixed eyes and very shallow breathing, i think she must have had a stroke at some point this afternoon.
I know what you mean {{{{Scooby}}}}.
Sorry this had to happen.
Glad that you managed to capture some memories on the camera.
my parents went to the assembly this weekend.
they were telling me about disciplining children... the speaker was saying how all babies are born selfish and demanding for their own needs and not anyone elses.
the jist of the talk being about discipline, and training children ...ie taking them out for a good beating.. well, i don't know if any of you have ever 'just seen red!
BlackSwanofMemph,
That is just the scenario that I experienced?.makes me feel sick??..
I feel that so many parents ?go overboard? with disciplining at the KH because others are watching/glaring at them. They spank all the more so.
It?s such a shame for these kids coz? most of them would probably be sleeping at home in the cozy beds rather than getting spanked coz? they are soooo bored at trying to listen for the next Jehovah or Jesus being said from the speaker.
my parents went to the assembly this weekend.
they were telling me about disciplining children... the speaker was saying how all babies are born selfish and demanding for their own needs and not anyone elses.
the jist of the talk being about discipline, and training children ...ie taking them out for a good beating.. well, i don't know if any of you have ever 'just seen red!
Their little faces a seared in my memory with the pain and fear!
Gill,
I feel just a you do. My mother didn?t smack me toooo much as a kid, but I do remember others really getting it. I don?t wish to give examples as it really upsets me now to think of it. I have always thought that those kids that you are bashing, for behaving there age, they will grow up one day and remember what you did to them. I just hope that most left the borg.
Now that I?m out, I?ve always liked to think that things may of got better in this regards?.clearly not.
I really feel for the JW kids?I really do.
mind control cults, abusing children by forcing them to sit listening to boring rubbish and be dragged round streets selling shit magazines. The smacking room.!!!!!!!!
Couldn?t of put it better myself!
the august 22, 1978
awake!
published the article "do others do your thinking?
Rockbound,
WOW that article is almost word for word the same as the following article???.! What a great re-hash!
June 22nd AWAKE 2000
P.6 Par 6Name calling
Some people insult those who disagree with them by questioning character or motives instead of focusing on the facts. Name calling slaps a negative, easy-to-remember label onto a person, a group, or an idea. The name-caller hopes that the label will stick. If people reject the person or the idea on the basis of the negative label instead of weighing the evidence for themselves, the name -caller?s strategy has worked.
P.9
DO NOT BE A VICTIM OF PROPAGANDA!
Para.1& 2
There is a difference- a big difference - between education and propaganda. Education show?s you how to think. Propaganda tells you what to think. Good educators present all sides of an issue and discourage discussion. Often there real motives are not apparent. They sift the facts, exploiting the useful ones and concealing the others. They also distort and twist facts, specializing in lies and half-truths. Your emotions, not your logical thinking abilities, are their target.
(2)
The propagandist makes sure that his message appears to be the right and moral one and that gives you a sense of importance and belonging if you follow it. You are the smart ones, you are not alone, you are comfortable and secure - so they say.
P.11 Para. 1
Do not just follow the crowd.
If you realize that what everybody thinks is not necessarily correct, you can find the strength to think differently. While it may seem that all others think the same way, does this mean that you should? Popular opinion is not always a barometer of truth.
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This particular article actually helped me leave the borg. If applied, it should do the trick?.kick start ones own God-given thinking abilities.
its time to leave.
i have had all the answers i need to make a firm decision.
thank you so much everyone for your replies, for talking to me over the last few weeks and for some of the humour.. i believe the jws are right and that they have the truth.
Holly,
Just in case you are still lingering, you said.....
believe this. if you can be misjudged and badly hurt and then punished for something that isnt your fault, and you can bow to that punishment and accept it, and forgive those people that did it to you, and accept that punishment like it was your fault, even when it wasnt, then i think you have found the true meaning of love and forgiveness, and hold the keys to the kingdom.
You have the true mentality of a JW......you MUST go back!
My only guideline to you for the future, is that if something/someone makes you feel really bad, doubtful or frightened about others, be it elders, long standing JW friends. Please be assured that you should not feel that way amongst 'true worshippers of God' The feeling you should be experiencing should be complete peace and surety that you are amongst loving people, who will be your friends always.
I am glad that you are going back now with the awareness that should you change your mind, you know that leaving will mean that all your JW acquaintances will abandon you, you will be deserted. Really you should always highlight this point when you start a study with anyone?please do this.
Personally, life is just to short to be investing precious time on ones who will desert me for my personal beliefs.
Take care Holly
(I do hope that you read this)
this memory just came to me and i wondered of anyone else remembered it.
it was at the district assembly where the questions young people ask book was launched.
all the young ones had to move and sit together in one stand of the football stadium.
Ross,
I am sooo pleased for you??that is really good to hear, I?m chuffed for you too!
Did I say recently how much I love JWD???I've just spent the last hour chatting with Crumpet - we know each other and our respective families!
Ross, ISP sends his regards to you also. We have been manically busy recently, hopefully things are evening out now.
glitter
I told me mum the applause sto ry - and she said I wasn't in the kids section because they asked kids 10 and over to be in that section - so that's why I don't remember it. Me being under 10 puts it before June 1991. I think 1990 would be about right.
I think I was only at a Hillsborough convention (in 1985 or 1986) one year before it started being at Leeds, I remember sitting on blankets on the terraces... *shudder*.
The ?applause? story is hilarious! I was always amused at the ones who were there, ready with the large sheets of plastic - for when it rained..?oh the joy!
(Latte who's off the dig out the 'Youth book'.....)
(no!! i can't still have it!)
this memory just came to me and i wondered of anyone else remembered it.
it was at the district assembly where the questions young people ask book was launched.
all the young ones had to move and sit together in one stand of the football stadium.
Ross,
Now your taking me back! Yes, it was the 'Youth book' i recieved. I've lost track of the years! LOL
this memory just came to me and i wondered of anyone else remembered it.
it was at the district assembly where the questions young people ask book was launched.
all the young ones had to move and sit together in one stand of the football stadium.
glitter,
I remember I got the YPA at a convention
Yeah, I recieved my wonderful YPA book from main road - oh the joy!
The main road kids would never behave the way the 'Leeds crowd' behaved! Maybe we were just 'more spiritual'!...lol
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thank you for your replies, but i still wonder if anybody can scan this series of articles for me today as i want to strat typing the letter i mentioned to our past friends.
if you cannot scan it on here you can e-mail it to me at [email protected]..
Oh my ! I?ve just quickly glanced at the article and noticed some timely advice for me??. P5. 1 st Para. ??.But avoid passively allowing TV, movies and novels to clog your mind and emotions with fantasy. The relationships usually portrayed on the screen are not real life, not real friendships, but the product of someone?s imagination.? I really needed to know that???????.Dohhhhh!