Here's one I posted on another thread, but in case you missed it...
(Note the use of Norm's "Elusive Brother Some")
My sister da'd herself about 5 years ago over gambling. The local elders were intent on prying into her personal business. Why do I say personal? Because she isn't married and has no kids, and gave more than her share at the hall.
Well they didn't like it, because she was a high stakes gambler that was her job and she would show up at the hall dripping in gems and shit, and most of the elder body except my father lived in a double wide. One of the elders got so mad he had to leave the room, after she told him one night's take equalled his annual salary. (HE ASKED.)
So you can see this caused problems. They formed SEVERAL judicial committees, and my sister was nice enough to tolerate them all.
The last straw? She told them, she was more than willing to stop gambling and just say she would wait on Jehovah for refinement. Of course, she had done all of her own research and was able to stupify them by asking them to draw comparisons between stock market and gambling--how did they differ?
Anyhow, the elder body told her they wanted to hear her say the words "I think gambling is wrong." and she refused to .... So they gave her 7 day notice of DF, and she wrote out a DA letter.
PS First this went all the way to the DO who recommended they stop prying but they claimed 'some' in the cong. were being stumbled by seeing a young woman dripping in cash with no job.
Of course, the only ones who saw her contribution checks were the elders, and although they cashed them happily still had the balls to question 'Where was she getting her money?' When they found out, they never offered to return any of it.
Elder Schmelder.
Lisa