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  I told my dad this morning.........

  by lv4fer in

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  he asked if i was going to the circuit assembly this weekend.

  he asked why.

  i just said after a long pause, dad it's not the truth (you have to understand that i'm the one who preached to this man and got him in the truth) the conversation lasted about 5 minutes with him saying well who else teaches the right thing, you have to understand, jehovah has to have an organization.

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  Leander

  There are lot of good questions that you can ask your father that might get him to do some serious thinking. For example:

  We are in the most crucial point in human history, would it be logical for God to allow an organization representing him to make so many mistakes during this time of the last days?

  Would a religion who really served as God's communication channel blatantly disregard the bible and run ahead of God time after time proclaiming dates for armageddon? (Jesus warned us on several occasions to watch out for individuals claiming that the end is here)

  Also a true mark of God's chosen people would be one who cares for the flock. Is the WTS really any different than other religions in regards to child abuse? (have they always turned in known child abusers to the local authorities, have they removed and kept these abusers from positions of authority and trust)

  If your dad really thinks about the answers to that question then the truth should hopefully be evident
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  Is it natural to be with one person for a lifetime

  by Leander in

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  i've always wondered if there really is such thing as a paradise and a hope for eternal life would we be limited to interacting with only one person?

  the point could be argued from several perspectives.

  several scriptures would suggest that a man and woman once joined in marriage are to be tied only to each other indefinitely.

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  Leander

  I've always wondered if there really is such thing as a paradise and a hope for eternal life would we be limited to interacting with only one person?

  The point could be argued from several perspectives. Several scriptures would suggest that a man and woman once joined in marriage are to be tied only to each other indefinitely. However there are other scriptures where the practice of having more than one spouse was not uncommon.

  Also its interesting to note that as humans variety is one of the keys to a rich and meaningful existence. No sane person would enjoy eating the same food, wearing the same clothing or even talking/interacting with just one person. So why would'nt that apply to initmate relationships as well? Despite the fact that people get married to one person they still experience attractions to other people. Would'nt this be a sign that we naturally are capable of enjoying more than one relationship?

  I'm not claiming to know the answers to this, but its an interesting thought.
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  3 somes

  by Leander in

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  hopefully this topic is'nt to offensive for the people here.

  but i've always been curious about it.

  when i first graduated high school my first full time job was at a mailroom over at the northwestern memorial hospital in chicago.

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  Leander

  lol @ bboy

  you and reborn are some lucky bastards, in the meanwhile I'm gonna keep working out. if my situation happens to change i'll be flexing my muscles at the clubs
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  3 somes

  by Leander in

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  2. relationships

  hopefully this topic is'nt to offensive for the people here.

  but i've always been curious about it.

  when i first graduated high school my first full time job was at a mailroom over at the northwestern memorial hospital in chicago.

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  Leander

  I passed up an opportunity a few years ago. About a year before I met my wife I worked with 2 hispanic girls. We all were in the same department so we often times we would get together and work out at the company gym. Anyway to make a long story short one of the girls (Margarita) asked me out for a drink at a nearby Bennigans and I accepted. We talked for about 30 or 40 minutes and then the other girl (Cindy) arrived and joined us. They told me they were bi and that they both find me attractive and would I be interested in getting together one weekend. I was shocked, I really never considered myself anything other than average so for 2 attractive women to proposition me was mind boggling. I initially said yes but later my consience got the best of me and I made up a flimsy excuse as to why I could'nt make it.

  I'm in a cold sweat just thinking about it, I wish I would have went thru with it.
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  3 somes

  by Leander in

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  hopefully this topic is'nt to offensive for the people here.

  but i've always been curious about it.

  when i first graduated high school my first full time job was at a mailroom over at the northwestern memorial hospital in chicago.

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  Leander

  I know this sounds selfish (probably because it is) but I'm longing to be single again. I feel like I've missed out on so many experiences being a dub. I think about sex now more than I did when I was single, it also does'nt help when the spouse refuses to engage in oral and only wants the nookie once or twice a week. I better shut up now, I've said to much already
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  3 somes

  by Leander in

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  hopefully this topic is'nt to offensive for the people here.

  but i've always been curious about it.

  when i first graduated high school my first full time job was at a mailroom over at the northwestern memorial hospital in chicago.

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  Leander

  Hopefully this topic is'nt to offensive for the people here. But I've always been curious about it.

  When I first graduated high school my first full time job was at a mailroom over at the NorthWestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago. I worked with 3 other guys who were all about 3 or 4 years older than myself. One of the guys there was a lady magnet, women were constantly flirting with him. (I guess it pays off to have muscles)

  One day he came into work and he was telling us guys how he had been in a 3some with 2 of the women who worked on our floor. We teased him for awhile and basically said that although we knew he got around there was no way he could have got the 2 women he had named into menaige a trois. (sp) Apparently he must have anticipated our skeptism because he supplied a couple of photographs. From that point on my young impressionable mind was blown. Being a fairly straight and narrow witness I had no idea that people actually got together like that. 11 years later I'm still thinking about that scenario.

  So here's my question

  Has anyone here ever been in a 3some?

  Would you like to?

  If you could choose any 2 people to be with who would it be?

  again hopefully no one will find this overly offensive
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  Found an old picture of me

  by bboyneko in

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  here is me going to school in the cool bus.

  all the other kids rode the ugly uncool bus..

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  Leander

  Back in the day I used to constantly work on my graff skills. I never really did any pieces tho, just a lot of notebook sketches and the occasional tag

  I'm really interested in music production as of recently, but again due to my schedule I just have'nt had a chance to put much time in on it.
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  Found an old picture of me

  by bboyneko in

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  here is me going to school in the cool bus.

  all the other kids rode the ugly uncool bus..

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  Leander

  That site is excellent, did you put it together yourself? I've been playing around here and there with trying to put together a music based site but I just have'nt had much time to devote to it.

  heh, once I leave the org tho I'll probably take a few web dev classes
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  Found an old picture of me

  by bboyneko in

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  here is me going to school in the cool bus.

  all the other kids rode the ugly uncool bus..

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  Leander

  I wish I could break, but I'm to big to pull off a lot of the moves. I still go to a few spots every now and then where they dance at.

  Are you into the underground hip hop scene?
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  Found an old picture of me

  by bboyneko in

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  here is me going to school in the cool bus.

  all the other kids rode the ugly uncool bus..

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  Leander

  I'm curious about your user name, are you really a b-boy? Do you breakdance?