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  heartbroken and not sure what to do...

  by Khaleesi in

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  2. relationships

  i don't know what to do.... i married last year and things have been very rocky.

  we dated for 4 years and did have normal issues but always had a lingering doubt something was just not right in our relationship-behavior to be more specific, he is not a jw, but i am.

  yes i know i married outside the "lord" but after my first marriage to a jw ended in divorce for physical abuse, i was glad i didn't married another jw.

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  bafh

  I think you need to do some research about Aspergers. This isn't personal to you - his response is how his brain is wired. If you love him, do some research and get some help to figure out what YOU need to do. This kind of interaction is one thing that people with Aspergers struggle with - but it doesn't mean that your relationship has to fail.

  This has a lot to do with you being willing to accept him as he is, and see how to support him so that you both get what you want/need out of the relationship. It won't be a fast process, but if he is open and there is progress being made, then he deserves a chance to have this work.

  http://www.empowher.com/mental-health/content/tips-being-relationship-man-who-has-aspergers-or-autism

  http://www.asperger-training.com/as-and-relationships/
  

  http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/05/17/5-tips-for-loving-someone-with-aspergers-syndrome/
  
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  America Mass Shooting: 10/1/2015

  by adjusted knowledge in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  since this will be the norm in america, perhaps we should put a date on each of these topics.

  can't really put school mass shooting because too many to choose from.

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  bafh

  This is in my neck of the woods. About 3 hours south of where I live in Portland. Plus, they are my clients so I'm waiting to hear if anyone I know was involved. :-(
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  TV.JW.ORG (September 2015) - Generation explained again

  by Designer Stubble in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  guess the overlapping generation concept is difficult for most to comprehend.

  david spane does his best to explain it again.

  the cutoff date for this generation has now moved to 1992 (was once 1935), the year that fred franz died.

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  bafh

  And yet again,

  "But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father."Mt. 24:36

  "But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. Mark 13:32

  "He said to them: "It is not for you to know the times or dates the Father has set by his own authority" Acts 1: 7
  
  

  So WHY are we wasting time trying to figure it out instead of working on our character?
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  Please, help me to show the USA that a public inquiry into child abuse...

  by defender of truth in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  .. in institutions is needed.

  it needs to be done as soon as possible.. and i need you to help me.. i need someone, maybe more than one person, to draft a template, for a letter to the white house.. it has to clearly state that the usa is falling way behind many other countries, in terms of protecting children in institutions nationwide.. it has to make this clear: .

  both australia and the uk (independent inquiry into child sexual abuse in england and wales, see here: www.csa-inquiry.independent.gov.uk/about-the-inquiry ) are currently investing large amounts of time and financial resources to research the best possible policies to protect children, across all institutions, religious and nonreligious.. they are working to expose the failures of various institutions, that have not reported child abuse, or have even covered it up... why are the united states of america not doing the same?!!.

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  You can start a White House Petition. If it reaches a certain number of signatures, the White House is required to respond in some way. https://petitions.whitehouse.gov
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  August Study WT "Prepare Now to be a Good Little Drone in the New Order"

  by JW_Rogue in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i thought paradise was supposed to be a delight?

  not according to the august study wt, on page 20 paragraphs 4-12 it outlines how much paradise will be exactly like being in the org today.

  still following rules, waiting on jehovah and obeying those taking the lead.

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  bafh

  "Brothers and Sisters, we have been enjoying Paradise for years. Not a literal but a figurative one. Now STFU and get your ATM cards, cash, checks or you can simply donate all your belongings to WTBS."

  They already say this - it's a SPIRITUAL Paradise, remember?
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  Helen Keller is not a hero

  by StopTheTears in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  few realize just how wicked some of the most revered people in history were.

  helen keeler (1880 to 1968) was a wolf in sheep's clothing, no hero.

  keller was a communist.

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  bafh

  Careful, your ignorance and paranoia are showing:

  1) American Sign Language, used in the US, Canada and Mexico, is a real an actual language.

  http://www.lifeprint.com/asl101/pages-layout/history3.htm

  2) Helen Keller did not invent or create "the hand sign system for the deaf,".

  
  

  3) "The ILY (I Love You) Sign is similar, but unrelated to the Diablo sign" that you discuss. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ILY_sign

  
  

  4) A lot of people were Communist during this time period and read many of the same authors. It is a reflection of the times, not necessarily a reflection of the value of a person. It is entirely unfair to judge historical figures in hindsight.

  5) You should really post your own thoughts and be careful to avoid plagerism. Not good form.

  http://www.whale.to/b/hand.html

  
  

  BAFH
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  New Watchtower Corporation Formed !!!

  by xjwsrock in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  to all congregations in the united states branch territory .

  re: jw congregation support .

  dear brothers: .

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  bafh

  If you have several corporations owned or controlled by the same people it becomes a control group and may be treated as one entity. That is for for-profit corporations and it largely has to do with taxes I think. I am not sure how that applies to non-profits. The announcement in the OP didn't specify that this corporation is non-profit. So it may not be. Seems to me they are looking for ways to move assets.
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  Geoffrey Jackson: "That would be presumptuous of us"...

  by Calebs Airplane in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  within the first few minutes, mr. stewart asked geoffrey jackson if the members of the governing body consider themselves to be god's spokesperson on earth.. his response: "that would be presumptuous of us" (implying that they don't consider themselves to be god's sole channel of communication).. to me, that was the worst lie of about 26 lies he's told during this hearing.

  however, mr. stewart missed an opportunity to call out mr. jackson on this bold-faced lie.

  he should have asked him to explain why the watchtower magazine teaches otherwise.

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  bafh

  Is this one of those "spiritual warfare" moments where they feel entitled to lie? I could see that as their justification for this answer in particular.
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  How are Pro-JW sites handling the RC situation ???

  by RubaDub in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  sorry as this topic may have been covered many times but any thoughts or links to other topics on how the pro-jw websites are commenting on this.. rub a dub.

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  bafh

  I was posting and all my comments were deleted because "she kept coming down on the other side" - sigh.
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  Dissent on JW-Archive

  by bemused in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  in the posts about the australian royal commission there have been several references to discussions on jw-archive.

  i'd not heard of that site, so checked it out.

  it seems to be used by many active jws - its tumblr style archive is full of pictures of jws doing their thing.

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  I sort of read his "Attack by Gog of Magog" as sarcasm....