1- I'm now at University and my drive at the moment is to do my assignments, and afterwards to get a good job from my education. Yea- finding love is also a drive. The thing is that really we shouldn't need a religion to give us a (false) reason to live. I enjoy films and going out for a drink, but these are not things I live for. They are fun to do.
2- I don't think I post here much, but it is easy to just take a look at what is topical and maybe comment if the whim takes you. Usually between work. Most people have internet on contract so it's just a case of getting your money's worth using it. It is a community of sorts.
3-I am decidedly an atheist. This is not a decision I came to easily. I decided it after reading many books on the issue of religion, the bible, science and spirituality- among other subjects (I could give more detailed reasons but it would go on and is worth several threads)- besides reflecting on my own experience. Even now I find myself calling on God when I feel stressed or worried- but I stop myself. He never answered me when I did worship him.
4- Counselling? I sometimes think I should have had that, so if you feel you should it is probably a good idea. I read some cheesy self help books, some good, some bad. I took them all with a pinch of salt, but I think I got some focus from reading them.
If you want to know which books and more detailed reasons you can PM me.