Looked after mum and dad for all that time they tried everything to place both in a home against their will and eventually they got a good lawyer and took me to court and won. They wasted no time placing first mum in a nursing home against her will and not long after that dad. Mum passed away and because they still have POA dad is still stuck there rotting away as he hates the place with a passion.
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Approaching a current affair
by focariedu21 insoooooooooo pissed about my situation i've decided to tell the world how i feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine.
am i doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as i the only male a disgrace being italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years.
i took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just kept screwing with mums head that i didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because i wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and i cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up.
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Approaching a current affair
by focariedu21 insoooooooooo pissed about my situation i've decided to tell the world how i feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine.
am i doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as i the only male a disgrace being italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years.
i took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just kept screwing with mums head that i didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because i wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and i cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up.
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well I am willing and able and the more the merrier the problem is I think many are fearful of the outcome...don't know why that is when we know the truth and no longer have association with the society...I say common guys join me and start the exposure and in the process start healing
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Approaching a current affair
by focariedu21 insoooooooooo pissed about my situation i've decided to tell the world how i feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine.
am i doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as i the only male a disgrace being italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years.
i took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just kept screwing with mums head that i didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because i wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and i cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up.
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Soooooooooo pissed about my situation I've decided to tell the world how I feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the Borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine. Am I doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (Parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as I the only male a disgrace being Italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years. I took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just KEPT screwing with mums head that I didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because I wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...Long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and I cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up
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Worlds Apart on SBS Aust.
by smiddy infor those down under in australia sbs is programmed to show" worlds apart " at 9: 30 pm this night on sbs 2. smiddy.
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focariedu21
Is this tonight 29th on sbs aest and what's it about?
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out but not out
by focariedu21 infrom australia very difficult life in the truth always fighting for the young ones as they had it very tough in the italian cong and i being a ms was always repramanded for it.
been in the truth for over 30 years together with my sibblings and mother.
mum passed away last year with parkinsons desease.
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focariedu21
one of the annointed that left the Org claims that he always had the calling from God...so no matter where you are or in which Org your in if God sees that in you he shall call you ..that was his point
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out but not out
by focariedu21 infrom australia very difficult life in the truth always fighting for the young ones as they had it very tough in the italian cong and i being a ms was always repramanded for it.
been in the truth for over 30 years together with my sibblings and mother.
mum passed away last year with parkinsons desease.
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Hi Hopscotch, tremendously sorry about your dire situation as I can relate to the pain and suffering but yet happy/satisfied/glad disposition your at at present as you fulfilled your duty to look after them.. and happy to hear about your family happy status at the moment and your sons as he progressfuly finds more happines in this new beautiful world. My daughter is getting married soon and most of my family wont be coming..their own choice but we're all happy as she's a wonderful person and very beautiful so much so everyone has asked for her to appear in films and magazines together with my son who also has good looks but their jw's upbringing has somewhat lowered their self esteem and are very skeptical about the whole thing. My son has appeared in a few films with keanu reaves the matrix long time ago as he loved the movies but again because of the org wasn't able to pursue it. Myself am busy writing a few scripts for a film company and hopefully it will hit the big screen soon with me having a part in it. Just can't believe what we all missed out on
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out but not out
by focariedu21 infrom australia very difficult life in the truth always fighting for the young ones as they had it very tough in the italian cong and i being a ms was always repramanded for it.
been in the truth for over 30 years together with my sibblings and mother.
mum passed away last year with parkinsons desease.
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focariedu21
sure will clarity never thought there was an army of people whom were very much like minded and thoughtful as you and the rest....
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out but not out
by focariedu21 infrom australia very difficult life in the truth always fighting for the young ones as they had it very tough in the italian cong and i being a ms was always repramanded for it.
been in the truth for over 30 years together with my sibblings and mother.
mum passed away last year with parkinsons desease.
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focariedu21
You Guys are the best...thanks and so many stories to tell. I've written a short story for a short film and shooting will commence in a couple of weeks hopefully many JW'S shall be intrigued by it. It's titled 'Life is red' about the senseless belief of abstaining from blood and allowing your own to die.
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out but not out
by focariedu21 infrom australia very difficult life in the truth always fighting for the young ones as they had it very tough in the italian cong and i being a ms was always repramanded for it.
been in the truth for over 30 years together with my sibblings and mother.
mum passed away last year with parkinsons desease.
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focariedu21
We're in limbo at the moment as my kids don't know where to turn to. The're both fantastic kids and trying to adjust to the outside world, family have all given up on us and not associating with us at all as they think we are not of their fold any longer.I ve given my entire life to the society on construction sites in Australia and papua new guinea with no appreciation what's so ever. I've seen first hand in PNG what the society is really like not giving food to the indegeneous people there in the societies own compound dis-allowing me from feeding these poor innocent souls as we ate food on the table whilst they looked at each other licking their lips and wondering why...I was so disgusted I went into one of the societies container full of food and prepared 40 large pizzas for them. The brothers were outraged by it but i told them all where to go and headed back home. Shall never forget the experience
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out but not out
by focariedu21 infrom australia very difficult life in the truth always fighting for the young ones as they had it very tough in the italian cong and i being a ms was always repramanded for it.
been in the truth for over 30 years together with my sibblings and mother.
mum passed away last year with parkinsons desease.
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focariedu21
From Australia very difficult life in the truth always fighting for the young ones as they had it very tough in the italian cong and I being a ms was always repramanded for it. been in the truth for over 30 years together with my sibblings and mother. Mum passed away last year with parkinsons desease. She wanted her family to look after her but no one of my sibblings wanted too as they all needed the time for field service and other orgs things...no time for their own mother. Dad is not a jw's and hates them with a passion as he thinks that the're only objective in life is to make money and ruin other peoples lives andd this came to fruition when mum got sick and his own jw's daughters wouldn't look after her in fact they were arguing every day about placing her and him in a home, so I decided to look after them both together with my wife and kids. I had to sleep away from my family for over a year in a tiny room the size of a laundry and would see my family every now and then. after a while my wife decided to stay with me and one year turned to 3 and half . My sisters were adamant to place mum and dad in a home because they diddn't want the burden and the time was taken from their beloved meetings and other spiritual activities so they tried everything. They had power of attorney over my parents without my knowledge nor mums or dads they forged signutures, so I revoked their POA and they took me to court to revoke mine, they won and placed both mum and dad in a home, this action broke mums heart and she passed away soon after and dad is still in a home as I cant do much to revoke their POA again as I don't have much money left. I shall never forgive their actions as I think this destroyed our relationship with many members of my family and killed mum and soon dad also.