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  what do you say to a brother-in-law elder who can't take no for an answer

  by focariedu21 in

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  my daughter is getting married soon and she has "no kids to my wedding" policy as we plainly cannot afford it.

  everyone out of the truth seems to understands this and no complaints but my abnoxious proud and pig headed brother in law can't take no for an answer as he thinks his young son is sooooooo special he needs to attend.

  he called up yesterday and gave her an earfull on how his son is sooo good and her first cousin that it's sooo wrong to have him there, she came home crying.

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  focariedu21

  Thesilince "you made my day" that's great
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  what do you say to a brother-in-law elder who can't take no for an answer

  by focariedu21 in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  my daughter is getting married soon and she has "no kids to my wedding" policy as we plainly cannot afford it.

  everyone out of the truth seems to understands this and no complaints but my abnoxious proud and pig headed brother in law can't take no for an answer as he thinks his young son is sooooooo special he needs to attend.

  he called up yesterday and gave her an earfull on how his son is sooo good and her first cousin that it's sooo wrong to have him there, she came home crying.

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  focariedu21

  This is a guy that has continually looked down on my own kids and others in the truth and now its my chance being out of the truth to really express my true feeling about him...so please help me no matter how harsh the words..more harsh much better
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  what do you say to a brother-in-law elder who can't take no for an answer

  by focariedu21 in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  my daughter is getting married soon and she has "no kids to my wedding" policy as we plainly cannot afford it.

  everyone out of the truth seems to understands this and no complaints but my abnoxious proud and pig headed brother in law can't take no for an answer as he thinks his young son is sooooooo special he needs to attend.

  he called up yesterday and gave her an earfull on how his son is sooo good and her first cousin that it's sooo wrong to have him there, she came home crying.

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  focariedu21

  My daughter is getting married soon and she has "no kids to my wedding" policy as we plainly cannot afford it. Everyone out of the truth seems to understands this and no complaints but my abnoxious proud and pig headed brother in law can't take no for an answer as he thinks his young son is sooooooo special he needs to attend. He Called up yesterday and gave her an earfull on how his son is sooo good and her first cousin that it's sooo wrong to have him there, she came home crying. I hate this guy and am texting him this morning to give him an earful so he can keep reminding himself what an ass he is...but would like some input on what to say to him as he doesn't understand simple language.
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  Approaching a current affair

  by focariedu21 in

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  soooooooooo pissed about my situation i've decided to tell the world how i feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine.

  am i doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as i the only male a disgrace being italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years.

  i took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just kept screwing with mums head that i didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because i wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and i cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up.

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  Exactly my point...what are we fearful of...we're all in the same boat here wanting to expose the Org for what it is but not willing to go that extra mile
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  Approaching a current affair

  by focariedu21 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  soooooooooo pissed about my situation i've decided to tell the world how i feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine.

  am i doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as i the only male a disgrace being italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years.

  i took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just kept screwing with mums head that i didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because i wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and i cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up.

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  Sorry to answer your question ..YES iI looked after both for all that time and in all that time not one witness brother or elder came to visit mum....I have three sisters one might have come once a month the other twice a week...with the exception of the youngest who is not a sister was there with me pretty much all along. I even had threats from my own nephews and their dads not in the truth to give up what I was doing and place mum and dad in a home
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  Approaching a current affair

  by focariedu21 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  soooooooooo pissed about my situation i've decided to tell the world how i feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine.

  am i doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as i the only male a disgrace being italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years.

  i took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just kept screwing with mums head that i didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because i wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and i cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up.

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  focariedu21

  Looked after mum and dad for all that time they tried everything to place both in a home against their will and eventually they got a good lawyer and took me to court and won. They wasted no time placing first mum in a nursing home against her will and not long after that dad. Mum passed away and because they still have POA dad is still stuck there rotting away as he hates the place with a passion.
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  Approaching a current affair

  by focariedu21 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  soooooooooo pissed about my situation i've decided to tell the world how i feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine.

  am i doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as i the only male a disgrace being italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years.

  i took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just kept screwing with mums head that i didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because i wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and i cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up.

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  focariedu21

  well I am willing and able and the more the merrier the problem is I think many are fearful of the outcome...don't know why that is when we know the truth and no longer have association with the society...I say common guys join me and start the exposure and in the process start healing
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  Approaching a current affair

  by focariedu21 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  soooooooooo pissed about my situation i've decided to tell the world how i feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine.

  am i doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as i the only male a disgrace being italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years.

  i took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just kept screwing with mums head that i didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because i wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and i cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up.

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  focariedu21

  Soooooooooo pissed about my situation I've decided to tell the world how I feel no matter what the outcome..too many issues in my head and need to clear it as it's ddriving me nuts to stand idle and watch the Borg destroy countless other lives as they completely and utterley destroyed mine. Am I doing the right thing here...you know the outcome and destruction it will bring on me and my family so please advise guys need your help and support.....sooooooooo pissssssssed...they killed the love of my life my mum with their f......d up conceptions and ideologies and other bulshit, my own jw's sibblings took me to court over my mums estate and not wanting to look after her as she suffered from (Parkinson's desease) just so they could spend time in the ministry and destroyed and broke mums heart in the process as I the only male a disgrace being Italian left to look after both my parents with my family for 3 and half years. I took the matter to the elders as my sibblings just KEPT screwing with mums head that I didn't love her and should be in a home not at home where she wanted and pleaded with me to keep her there almost every day because she knew their egotistical ways but they told me that because I wasnt active they could do nothing about the situation it was my problem...Long story guys too long and too painful they tortured mum till the point of death and now doing it with dad and I cant do much about it as they have power of attorney it's killing me not to speak up
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  Worlds Apart on SBS Aust.

  by smiddy in

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  for those down under in australia sbs is programmed to show" worlds apart " at 9: 30 pm this night on sbs 2. smiddy.

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  focariedu21

  Is this tonight 29th on sbs aest and what's it about?
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  out but not out

  by focariedu21 in

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  2. friends

  from australia very difficult life in the truth always fighting for the young ones as they had it very tough in the italian cong and i being a ms was always repramanded for it.

  been in the truth for over 30 years together with my sibblings and mother.

  mum passed away last year with parkinsons desease.

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  one of the annointed that left the Org claims that he always had the calling from God...so no matter where you are or in which Org your in if God sees that in you he shall call you ..that was his point