in our separation agreement I put in there that the children can't be baptized in ANY religion until they turn 18. I know she will protest that, but i already have my reasoning ready for JW think....if they WANT to get baptized and big bad dad won't let them and armageddon comes, he will understand that i was preventing it.
anyway, the day ended well, he was more upset about me not being honest with him. we talked it out, i explained that I just didn't want to hurt his feelings. I promised him that i would not do that again and respect him as a person and tell him the truth, even if I knew he wouldn't like it. he liked that idea.