Maybe finding your way out of the Borg was your answer?
Seriously, looking back my DFing was the best thing that ever happend to me. I'm not sure I would have ever woken up if that didn't happen.
I had an argument with my roommate over whether or not it was ever written in the literature that JWs shouldn't go to college.
I called bethel, it wasn't and I was wrong. This would have been in the late 80s early 90s, not sure if they have finally put it in writing.
segway:
I remember they had an article that said it might be ok to go to college because it was getting harder and harder to make a living. Then at the next assemly they announced that it didn't apply in our area because there were so many high paying low skill jobs in the area. (The best I saw was $12 a hour with no chance of ever getting a raise)
This was the same assembly where they announced you shouldn't wear your baseball cap backwards.