James87, many of us tried to convince our families the JWs are not
right. We were JWs too, we know faults of that religion, we can point to
them, we read the old WTS literature... and still we are absolutely
powerless when talking to our beloved. Some of them looked a bit
lukewarm in their beliefs, but when we confronted them, they switched to
fully cultish mode. I do not say there is 0% chance, some attempts
really helped others to get out of the cult, but I would like to say, do
not hope you will help her out of JWism - results are unpredictable and
chances are low.
Next, if she marries you, she will be
considered spiritually weak, the one "who did a mistake", the one who "did
not obey loving counsels Jehovah gives us through the organization",
etc. Maybe it does not look as a big thing, but this will put more
pressure on your marriage. Any mistake you will do will be interpreted
in this light. She will hear other examples of people that are unevenly
yoked and how they regret they were not obedient. Everybody in the
congregation will look to her with pity and use her example to educate their
children on how marriage with an unbeliever does not
work. When you will push too much against her beliefs, she will be
reassured there is "a biblical reason" to separate from you. All JWs will expect your marriage to fail.
Have
you seen this Watchtower propaganda video? It will help you to
understand JW worldview and how they will see your potential marriage
https://www.jw.org/en/publications/videos/#mediaitems/VODMoviesModernDay/pub-ivtru_E_2_VIDEO