:::::especially when I hear my daughter complain how its all his fault because he CHOSE the state he's in.
Had Enough, I think if I were you I'd be planning a way to retrieve my daughter from the Tower. Being complacent with the dubs doesn't get you anywhere. As you see from my post - time just passes and before you know it 20 yrs has elapsed. The kind of crap your daughter is spouting is typical of their ignorance.
Why not turn your anger and frustration into action. To sit back and hope is not enough. In my case it's only been my relatives that have shunned me. My immediate family, husband and two kids are out. If one of my kids were in still I would leave no stone unturned in my attempts to secure their freedom. Read up on deprogramming, or cult exiting strategies. Keep up with info from the net on how crooked the WTS is. Keep your mind open as to ways you might best get your daughter back in your life. She could end up thanking you with all her heart.
Any time you need to talk about this please feel free to email me. I'm on [email protected] My heart goes out to you!
Marilyn