teejay - I'm nearly 50 and I've been hitched for 30 yrs. No it doesn't bother me that my SO likes to look at other women - I even point em' out to him sometimes.It would bother me if he was drooling over some woman at an inappropriate time. (time and place for everyting) and yes I do think it's natural because of the amount of testosterone in the male body. If you blocked the testosterone, guess what? You wouldn't be very interested in the female naked body. It's just chemistry. I might sound somewhat smug here, but I am a confident person and was lucky enough to be born with reasonable features. If I was other than I am, I might be more insecure and therefore resent my loved one window shopping. I think overly jealous relationships don't last. Hey teejay this is a non issue if ever there was one. We seem to be agreeing on the bleedin' obvious!!