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  April 19, 2017 BOE Re: Kingdom Ministry School for the 2018 Service Year

  by wifibandit in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  april 19, 2017 to all bodies of elders and ministerial servants re: kingdom ministry school for the 2018 service year.

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  I guarantee handling the satanic attacks of apostasy in the congregation will be discussed and how to swiftly and decisively handle it.
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  The challenge of " truth" and " moral opinion"

  by The Rebel in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  when growing up in a "proper" j.ws household:-.

  a) our moral opinions are conditioned by this environment and upbringing.. b) to hold to jws belief and moral opinions gives our life purpose.. c) what we believe we hold it to be true.. d) in terms of approval it can be difficult for the mind to accept logical evidence if our life is based on "truth" and " moral opinions" that conflict with our conscience.. anyway i am not sure where i am going with this o.p?.

  i guess my point is that settling factual and logical disputes with jws has proven more challenging than i realized.

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  Your post made me think that as JW's we used the organization as due north on our moral compass. Basically what they said and did was right and what they preached against was wrong. We didn't really have our own morals. We adopted the morals we were told to.

  In other words when you try to appeal to a JW's morals by pointing out flaws in the organization, you are actually attacking the JW's morals. They can't separate the two. Maybe on some level they start to short circuit. Whatever happens it gets personal quick and can even get violent. It's very sad to observe.

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  I think there's a breaking of the camel's back that has to happen for somebody to get out and you never know when that will be. Until then they are practically robots.
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  So, how's it feel, Watchtower -- now that the shoe's on the other foot?

  by FatFreek 2005 in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  yes, your cult has been banned in russia.

  what surprises me is that this hasn't happened in more countries.

  what surprises me is that civil suits in the u.s. haven't flooded the courts -- violation of civil and human rights because of the cruel act of shunning of disfellowshipped ones, even members of one's own family.. discrimination is a form of cruelty and civil and human rights define such.

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  Yeah I get it but the org bullies people into doing it by threatening them with emotional abuse. There is plenty of blame to go around. It's a sick dysfunctional mess.

  If all jw's would just stand up and walk out. The bullies wouldn't have any power. Oh to dream....
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  New York's Bethel tunnels are no more . . .

  by neat blue dog in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  http://www.brownstoner.com/neighborhood/brooklyn-heights/jehovahs-witnesses-brooklyn-heights-tunnels/.

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  effing weirdos....

  I don't know if I think it was a good idea for the sake of efficiency or if I think it is creepy weird. It is hard not to find it creepy weird.
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  Australian Congregations announce Child Safeguarding Policy is available upon request

  by wifibandit in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  this week all congregations in australia have been instructed to make the following announcement:.

  if a member of the congregation would like a copy of the child safeguarding policy of jehovah’s witnesses in australia, please see the coordinator of the body of elders or the secretary.. .

  childsafeguardingpolicy-eau.pdf.

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  It is a vast improvement, but you can see they are just checking off boxes for the commission.

  I think what bothers me the most is that they only report to the authorities when forced to by law or if the child is still in danger (who is going to determine that?).

  A single-person-witnessed allegation that is denied by the perpetrator will receive nothing but maybe a raised eyebrow and a note in a file folder. That means hundreds of molesters will slide through the organization still getting protection behind an ignorant 2-witness rule.

  Also there is no mention whatsoever about any concern for the welfare of children in the community. They honestly don't give a f*** if a worldly kid lives or dies.

  Sorry I'm getting worked up here ...
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  Emotionally very ill but can't face consequences of leaving

  by Isambard Crater in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm a new member so wanted to say 'hi'.

  i live in the u.k, was born in, fell away as an unbaptised publisher, got baptised in my 30s for reasons i'm retrospectively unsure of, and lost my faith about five years ago around the time of the original a.r.c.

  now, being unable to leave is making me physically, emotionally and mentally ill.. i'm not strong enough to da and live with the family consequences, and despite having several good friends outside the faith, none of them could support me in an active way as such.

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  You have to find some way to coast-by until you can make your next move. I am a freaking elder coasting. I do 10 minute parts in like 6 minutes. 15 minute parts in like 10. Service always invloves a stop by the hall because I forgot something or an errand I need to do because of a deadline. If I can work in an "encouraging visit" with someone, I definitely am up for that. By "encouraging visit" i mean a visit where I say absolutely nothing about the religion. Lol... i comment like once every other meeting. I miss like one out of three meetings prob.
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  How deep is the rot?

  by JeffT in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  by now it seems obvious that the gb and other leaders of the wtbs are corrupt.

  the pedo scandal and various financial schemes are sustained by either lack of concern or greed at the top.

  my question is how far down the food chain does this go?

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  I agree with many statements above. To add to ToesUp comment, I will say that they (elders) aren't allowed very many other outlets to be a 'big boy'. It's a sick twisted abusive web. It's like weak personalities are set up to fail in this religion.

  I am an elder still. How much longer who knows. I have set a definite line in the calendar sand, though. Summer of next year. I have been hoping for progress with the wife but I am starting to lose hope for that. She literally knows no other way to think and is so damn trained to revolt against "negative speech". Anyway I digress..

  To answer the opening question, it falls into yet another category where you have to resist black-and-white thinking. There is no one size fits all with this stuff. Each individual elder and each individual publisher is their own person with their own level of "awakeness" and/or delusion. If they are awake and still serving, it may be for self-serving greedy reasons or it may make them physically ill at times to go along with the deception in an effort to win over family. The religion teaches us all to be huge fakes at the kingdom hall. So who knows who anybody really is or what anybody really believes.

  Most on my elder body are pretty bought-in it seems. I see some dissension occasionally but not much. They are all scared of the next guy up the chain. These guys are committed to being elders for life it appears. Never do you hear a peep about stepping aside. It is a big part of their identity.

  With that said there are obviously people up the chain that are complete con-artists. Some CO's I would say are. I have met a few that had a funny look in their eye, if you follow me. Some are all about the financial advantages.

  That reminds me. I knew an elder once (one of the bad ones). If you pressed him on something incriminating or suspicious, he would stop talking, turn, and simply walk off to avoid answering the question or addressing the subject. LOL. .. Funny to think about now. I knew him before I was awake. He was definitely awake then and working the system.
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  The Field Ministry Experience I Would Love to See

  by xjwsrock in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  imagine this exchange in the door-to-door ministry:.

  .... jw: hello my name is tom, i'm with a group stopping by briefly.... householder: i'm sorry let me interrupt you right there... i know all about you people.. jw: oh really... what do you mean?.

  householder: you are that wierdo cult that believes in all sorts of delusional tripe... how can you let them con you like that?.

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  xjwsrock

  Imagine this exchange in the door-to-door ministry:

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  Jw: Hello my name is Tom, I'm with a group stopping by briefly...

  Householder: I'm sorry let me interrupt you right there... I know all about you people.

  Jw: Oh really... what do you mean?

  Householder: You are that wierdo cult that believes in all sorts of delusional tripe... How can you let them CON you like that?

  Jw: Oh no ... I'm sure you must be mistaken.. you see there are many people out there that spread lies about us to turn people against us...

  Householder: Trust me I know what you believe. It's the same basic story-line of all creepy cult religions.

  Jw: I'm positive you're mistaken, please tell me what you heard so that I can set the record straight.

  Householder: Ok, no problem... Let me take a minute and explain what I heard... and please correct me if I'm wrong..

  You believe that your group is the one and only special group hand-picked by God Almighty. One day soon a spaceship will come and rescue you from this planet that has been judged and sentenced to extermination. You will be taken to a faraway planet where you will be given new bodies and live like gods for all eternity. You will enjoy eternal youth and happiness in an Utopian setting of blissful tranquility. This will be your reward for being God's chosen torch-bearers of righteousness. Meanwhile planet earth and all those that refused to listen-to and join your group will be destroyed in a ball of galactic fire...

  So how did I do? How close did I get?

  Jw: (Laughing) Oh my god, NO. No. No. No.... We don't believe anything like that! I can't believe someone told you that.

  Householder: Oh really?

  Jw: No we are Christians! We believe Jesus died for our sins and his coming Kingdom will bring wonderful blessings to Mankind.

  Householder: Oh man... I'm sorry... Well I guess you could understand my initial reaction when you knocked at my door..

  Jw: Oh yes. I do understand. Whoever believes that crap needs to have their head examined!

  Householder: I AGREE COMPLETELY! Now go get your head examined!

  Jw: What? I'm confused.

  Householder: Like I said I know exactly what you believe. Substitute Armageddon for the Spaceship and Paradise for the New Planet and it's basically exactly what you believe. You're in a CULT Dumbass! Now get off my property!

  Jw: (Deer in headlights)

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  Oh to dream :)
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  Blondie's Comments You Will Not Hear at the 3-12-2017 WT Study (FREE WILL)

  by blondie in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  excellent general website: www.jwfacts.com .

  bible translations www.biblegateway.com/cgi-bin/bible .

  wt publications http://www.a2z.org/wtarchive/archive.htm (old).

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  Thanks Blondie. They continue to exploit the uneducated. I think the point of this article is to convince mentally imprisoned cult members that they're actually free. Laughable insanity.

  "You're not enslaved cult members doing the bidding of a sleazy corporation corrupted by power and money..... no no .... you are beautiful creatures of free will that have sacrificed that freedom to serve God."

  Pretty simple scam really. Get people to do what you want by telling them God wants them to to it. Oh and God put them in charge of telling people what he wants of course. Lol.

  It would be funny if it wasn't such criminal con-artistry.
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  Navigating the "real world"

  by Minerva in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  although i haven't called myself a witness in almost 15 years, i'm still married to one (which has it's own set of challenges and is fodder for a completely different post).

  i haven't spent a lot of time on forums with other ex-jws either, but thought i would throw this question out to you all because it's something i still struggle with.... particularly for those of you who were raised in or were in the religion for many years - what has it been like for you to navigate the work world?

  i would be a 3rd generation jw on one side of my family and a 4th generation on the other side -- the hardest thing for me has been just knowing how to act and behave, especially among co-workers.

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  Could be that you feel in constant limbo because of your spouse still in the religion. It might be how you're wired up though. I haven't read it, but there is a new study out about smart people needing to be alone more. You can google it up pretty easy.