I never say anything because of the fact that when I was "in" when people said things to me it didnt make a dent.
No matter what they said I had a wall up that discredited anything they said. Anything.
So I guess I just go situation by situation now, is the best way to describe it.
The least I do is just walk by.
The most I have said is " I am a JW but have backed away and cannot support the current direction they are headed in."
I am non confrontational too - damn also! LOL