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  LOGICAL - Why are you always so sad, fed up &

  by Celtic in

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  lonely?

  ever since i've come to this board, you take every opportunity possible to imform everyone else how sad you are, do you ever give encouragement back to others, or have you always been like this, doing your best to stay as miserable as can be?.

  you know theres lots of people here who would like to help you, given the chance, in fact i can't even be bothered to give you any encouragement this time, cos all you do every time you see someone in chat is tell them how lonely and sad you are.

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  Flower,
  You asked

  Or is there some unwritten rule saying that anyone whose problems are regarding their sex or sexuality is excused from the rules of common courtesy and can treat people like crap?

  Do you realize it ws just a few months ago that Logi revealed this part of himself to everyone here? It took him a very long time to even mention this aspect of himself. Nah you wouldn't realize that, you have only been here a few months.

  I agree with you that it is not okay to treat someone bad, I never said it was. I guess maybe I am missing something that went on with you two, which really isn't any of my business. When I mentioned that you were untrustworthy, it is because I saw you post a private IM message with him on a public board. I was trying to get across to you that a person who has problems trusting others are not going to be willing to trust you in the future. Perhaps whatever happened between you two happened before the chat was posted. Either way as my first post said, you cannot expect another person to change their mental health based on a timeline you feel is a good one.

  As far as my handle, I chose that because that is who I see myself first, the mom of my kids. If you have problems with your own mommy, please take it up with her.

  I am going to give a bit of advice here, and you can take it anyway you want. Turn off the PC, get outside, take a nap, whatever, do something else for a bit. You are getting very upset over this, and I hate to see that. I have been told a few times to do the above, and guess what? It works! Remove yourself from this situation and you will not be so upset okay? After you have calmed down, maybe you can come back and we can talk again.
  wendy
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  LOGICAL - Why are you always so sad, fed up &

  by Celtic in

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  lonely?

  ever since i've come to this board, you take every opportunity possible to imform everyone else how sad you are, do you ever give encouragement back to others, or have you always been like this, doing your best to stay as miserable as can be?.

  you know theres lots of people here who would like to help you, given the chance, in fact i can't even be bothered to give you any encouragement this time, cos all you do every time you see someone in chat is tell them how lonely and sad you are.

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  Flower,
  As I said before it took a very long time for Logical to trust me. Being that is a hang up Logical has, perhaps you can understand that he is not going to unload and tell all to just anyone. By your own actions you have proven yourself untrustworthy. I personally would ignore you too if you posted private IM chats, and made public, some private info I had given you.

  Give up on it okay? I see your point, to a certain degree, yet you really cannot tell a puppy, "Love me dammit!" and the dog will come running to you giving you undieing respect, and devotion.
  wendy
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  Conspiracy's!!!!! ya gotta see this!

  by VeniceIT in

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  i don't know if you've watched the new show on tnn called 'conspiracy theory' hosted by kevin nellian (snl).. they have a panel with people on both sides of an issue.

  it's really funny.

  this week it's about secret societies.

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  I was so shocked the other day, I saw an ad on TV to join the Mason's! No kidding, I had a friend of mine join, and I know how secretive they are, and how hard it is to get in. So to see an open ad on TV to join them I was like WOW!
  wendy
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  LOGICAL - Why are you always so sad, fed up &

  by Celtic in

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  lonely?

  ever since i've come to this board, you take every opportunity possible to imform everyone else how sad you are, do you ever give encouragement back to others, or have you always been like this, doing your best to stay as miserable as can be?.

  you know theres lots of people here who would like to help you, given the chance, in fact i can't even be bothered to give you any encouragement this time, cos all you do every time you see someone in chat is tell them how lonely and sad you are.

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  Lisa,
  I was typing when you were lol I just wanted to say Amen to that
  wendy

  Eman,
  

  Hmmm. He / She....which is it?

  Therein lies most of the problem. You do not even know half of what Logi has gone through, I just know if you did you would be more understanding.
  wendy
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  LOGICAL - Why are you always so sad, fed up &

  by Celtic in

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  lonely?

  ever since i've come to this board, you take every opportunity possible to imform everyone else how sad you are, do you ever give encouragement back to others, or have you always been like this, doing your best to stay as miserable as can be?.

  you know theres lots of people here who would like to help you, given the chance, in fact i can't even be bothered to give you any encouragement this time, cos all you do every time you see someone in chat is tell them how lonely and sad you are.

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  Celtic,
  You have touched my eyeball And Flower honey you haven't known him that long, I understand your frustration I really do, but you are wrong in many of the things you said about Logi.

  Logical takes a very long time to trust someone, I am living proof of that. It took months and months before he started to open up to me. Do you people realize all of the "good advice" you are giving he is probably getting 300 fold? The only thing you can do is hope he is happy, when you reach this point instead of wanting results your frustration will cease. And you may perhaps see another side to him.

  Logical has many, many times uplifted me. He has shocked me with the kindness in his heart and the love he has to give. Even on this forum he has encouraged others, sorry you all missed it, but he has. He is a very intelligent person and very funny. Perhaps he has built his own wall around him because he does not want to be hurt. For others to tell him it is time to tear down that wall, over and over again, does nothing but make him more insecure with what is behind it.

  As far as what he has contributed to this community. I didn't know we were taking account. Is there a limit of support? Is there a time we can no longer come here? At what stage is a person said to be no longer worthy to post or chat here? As far as I know over the past 15 months I have been here, there have only been a precious few who are no longer welcome.

  If Logical bothers you, why do you feel it is neccessary to publicly state it? He has real problems, he is getting real help, and because he doesn't do it according to your timeline you are willing to give up on him? Hmmm sounds like Logical is the only one progressing in this case. You are not able to set demands or limits on anothers mental health, no matter what amount of time you have given him.

  Logi I love ya honey!
  wendy
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  Home Security Code

  by Outaservice in

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  i'm just curious how many of you that have/had a home security system used the code '1914'?.

  i know around here you could have broken into any jw's home on a sunday morning using it.. outaservice (who changed his code to 1975!

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  Mesenger,
  Taking a stab at it...was it when they adopted Jehovah's name, and became witlesses?
  wendy
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  An ounce of poison in a pound of sugar

  by Derrick in

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  is all it takes.. think about it.

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  REM!
  Hahah Roflol!
  wendy
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  What is you occupation

  by Beans in

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  im a liceinced electrician now working in wireless communication installations.i love the electrical industry,there is so much to learn and so many different things do work with and technology is always changing.never a boaring day especially when we are working in the office buildings downtown,chicks everywhere!.

  beans.

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  mommy

  Right now, I am a mommy. I will ressurect this thread when I get a paying job
  wendy
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  Home Security Code

  by Outaservice in

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  i'm just curious how many of you that have/had a home security system used the code '1914'?.

  i know around here you could have broken into any jw's home on a sunday morning using it.. outaservice (who changed his code to 1975!

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  OUT!
  LOL That is too funny. That was our security code too! Basically it was any 4 digit code that was needed. Haha I never thought anyone else used it.
  wendy
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  any in NZ

  by gotcha in

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  is there anyone here in nz??

  im just wonderin where in .

  nz did they film lord of the rings..

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  Actually
  I was wondering where Shalom and Jezebel's influence went to? Didn't JI change her name? I can't rememeber now. Anyway, if you gals are still out there shoot me an email, I miss ya!
  wendy