I was spanked through out my jw child hood, not one swat, but several at a time on my bare bottom with a leather belt, I don't do it to my kid, there was a point, where it didn't hurt anymore and simply one day turned around and said to my dad, are you finished? He didn't spank me again, but he did smack me across the face once in a public park, when I called him an asshole, when I was about 16.
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To spank or not to spank?
by Nowhere ini had a conversation with an active witness from the usa lately.
and when talking about child upbringing he stated that some children need a spank sometimes.
of course i was upset because of that, and i didn't thought witnesses was that stupid.
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How Do You Unwind?
by Scully inlately, i've found listening to my "simpsons" cds while i'm driving home from work to be very helpful in de-stressing.
they always make me laugh, and it's far less depressing than listening to the news on the radio while i'm driving.. i've also been known to have bubble baths by candle light with a good relaxing cd playing (i have one that's of thunderstorms which is one of my favorites).
glass of wine optional.
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My Therapist Must Think I'm Absolutely Nuts!
by Swan inevery week i go in and tell my therapist these fantastic stories about the religion i was raised in!
i think he believes me, but then when i think about it, it sounds too fantastic to be true.
he must think i'm absolutely insane.
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Trauma_Hound
Jehovah's Witnesses have similar convictions in our faith, only we direct our efforts into more peaceful pursuits.
Raping young children is hardly peacefule, tearing familys apart is hardly peaceful, letting a child die because of no blood transfusion is hardly peaceful. And finally disfellowshiping people for protecting children is hardly peaceful, JW's are not about peace.
Edited by - Trauma_Hound on 21 August 2002 1:17:45
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My Therapist Must Think I'm Absolutely Nuts!
by Swan inevery week i go in and tell my therapist these fantastic stories about the religion i was raised in!
i think he believes me, but then when i think about it, it sounds too fantastic to be true.
he must think i'm absolutely insane.
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Trauma_Hound
Well if your worried, you could always give him the links to ex-jw sites about it. ;)
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We shall NOT watch how we walk
by mikepence inmy family will not be attending the march.
i respect bill and what he has accomplished, but i believe that attempts to control the march and the marchers, are misplaced -- even damaging for victims of abuse -- who have been controlled enough!.
the last thing victims of abuse need is to be told to keep up appearances.
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Mike did you ever contact him about this? Actually Noon is a more affective time for a march, this is from a seasoned marcher, put whatever you want on your sign, I think your reading more into it then there is, he didn't say you had to, he said he prefered it.
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We shall NOT watch how we walk
by mikepence inmy family will not be attending the march.
i respect bill and what he has accomplished, but i believe that attempts to control the march and the marchers, are misplaced -- even damaging for victims of abuse -- who have been controlled enough!.
the last thing victims of abuse need is to be told to keep up appearances.
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Mike Bill never said you had to wear any certain type of clothing, it was a suggestion, I wouldn't myself if I could, no matter what anyone said, besides the fact I don't own a JW type suit. Wear what you want, and go, you begged for money to get you there, and now your turning around, are you for real or a thief?
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What happened to freedom of speach/thought???
by jterfehr ini have not been to this sight in months.
i come back and its a complete mess.
this jw-whoever guy, has a right to speak his mind.
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Trauma_Hound
Hey your the one that's told me to shut up several times, what have I done to you personaly? Tell me?
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What happened to freedom of speach/thought???
by jterfehr ini have not been to this sight in months.
i come back and its a complete mess.
this jw-whoever guy, has a right to speak his mind.
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Trauma_Hound
How JW of you Refiner.
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Would You Like to Work For silentlambs?
by silentlambs inhelp needed for the silentlambs organization
due to the increasing workload associated with silentlambs i am requesting assistance to help with certain aspects of the organization.
i have created the following positions which will include the listed duties.
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Trauma_Hound
I'm curious why people even respond to YK, if you ignore him he will go away, slamming him doesn't accomplish anything, it just brings you down to his level. If your better than him, act like it.
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What happened to freedom of speach/thought???
by jterfehr ini have not been to this sight in months.
i come back and its a complete mess.
this jw-whoever guy, has a right to speak his mind.
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Trauma_Hound
LOL, your the last person that should give me that kind of advise, look in the mirror sometime.