Let me add a welcome too! I'm in the same boat as you, my hubby wasn't a gung-ho JW either, but became one when I abruptly stopped going to meetings. It is annoying to say the least. However, he does occasionally agree with me on select points brought into general conversation...so I do have some hope for him.
Wishing you the best, maybe his redoubling efforts won't last long and he will forget about everything.