That is the question for the next months ... I am 32 and I will turn 33 on December....I am freaking out!!! My hubby and I have no children and we are not looking for one right now because im studying a masters. I will finish subjects in June and after that I will write my thesis (6 more months). I need an advise. I have never been pregnant, I dont know if I can have kids and im feeling old. But at the same time I have worked hard for this masters and i ve got this far. I have 2 jobs + im studying , some people say it s too much for a pregnant woman, others say I ll be fine. So girls, what would you advise to me???
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by Dudu inthat is the question for the next months ... i am 32 and i will turn 33 on december....i am freaking out!!!
my hubby and i have no children and we are not looking for one right now because im studying a masters.
i will finish subjects in june and after that i will write my thesis (6 more months).
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Today I dont feel so awesome ....
by Dudu intoday i feel the need to write.
it been 3 years out of the borg and my life has been wonderful since then.
updates?
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Dudu
Today I feel the need to write. It been 3 years out of the borg and my life has been wonderful since then. Updates? I already finished the first year of my masters, I work at a prestigious university in my country, I found a very nice guy whom I am married to. So, what s wrong?
I came across a picture of an old JW friend and I felt bad for the things I have missed. Two of my ex bf got married and I missed their weddings. I am not in touch with people i spend almost 3 decades of my life. That doesnt feel right at times .... Anyways, I just wanted to share
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Funny story from where the need is great!!
by DATA-DOG ini am sittng in my kitchen, posting on jwn.
in the meantime my family is sitting around talking about their experiences in a foreign country.
i am talking too, but they don't know what i am typing.
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Dudu
come to Dominican Republic!!!
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Business...........
by Dudu inas some of you know i started a business this past school year, what i do basically is to help kids with the homework in the afternoon.
i had 2 people helping me out , both quiet uneffective, here is my dilema:.
1) the first one is my niece.
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Dudu
Hello everyone!!!!
As some of you know I started a business this past school year, what I do basically is to help kids with the homework in the afternoon. I had 2 people helping me out , both quiet uneffective, here is my dilema:
1) The first one is my niece. She was usually not on time, which affected a lot the busines because she is the one who opens!!! She is always in a hurry and asked for a lot of permissions to leave earlier, she even took a subject in college that didnt allowed her to be on time every tuesday.... that forced me to hire someone else to cover that day. Besides she only works 2 hours a day 4 days a week , which isnt much. My sister (her mom) is having a very hard time right now and she isnt much of a help. I think she should get a real job and help in her house. But at the same time if i fire her i will be in a big family mess.... I told her that if I dont have enough kids I cant have assistant , so, she will be forced to find a job.
2) As my niece doesnt work at school is a little easier to just tell her that i dont have enough clients but this one is even harder .. this is a colleague, she helped me to find new clients last year and due to the situation with my niece she helped me to open the business on tuesdays , the problem with this one , is that she does a lot at the same time, therefore she is never on time and she is never focused on the task. I ended up dealing with a bunch of kids with no enough help at the end of the school year, and even worse she is always asking me for money ....
If I have only 3 to 4 kids I will be more relaxed and I will have the same profits as if i have these people working with me.... How should I handle this??? Please please help!!!!
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A question specially for ladies ...
by Dudu indid you change the way you dress after leaving the wt?.
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Cool to hear, i am in the process of reshaping my style , :)
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A question specially for ladies ...
by Dudu indid you change the way you dress after leaving the wt?.
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did you change the way you dress after leaving the WT?
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Im going to vote!!!
by Dudu inyes, this month is the presidential election in my country and im going to exercise my right of voting .......... what im not sure about is if i let mom know, she is still a jw and im basically fading so, i dont want to mess it up, but at the same time i feel that i shoul be free for once and all.
i dont live with her anymore but that would break her heart, and she has high blood pressure problems so, why to bother?
i dont know :s.
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Yes, this month is the presidential election in my country and im going to exercise my right of voting .......... what im not sure about is if i let mom know, she is still a JW and im basically fading so, i dont want to mess it up, but at the same time i feel that i shoul be free for once and all. I dont live with her anymore but that would break her heart, and she has high blood pressure problems so, why to bother? I dont know :S
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Clowns all around ....
by Dudu ini have this friend, i used to encourage to go to meetings and preach.
now he is still not going regularly to meetings or preaching but keep sending me emails about how much jehovah loves us and how close the big a is ....
wtf?!!!!
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I have this friend, I used to encourage to go to meetings and preach. Now he is still not going regularly to meetings or preaching but keep sending me emails about how much Jehovah loves us and how close the big A is .... WTF?!!!!
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My Partner and I have been together for 10 years today!
by ohiocowboy ini am very proud that we have been together for 10 years!
being raised a jw, it was always hard for me to find a long term relationship.
most people that i met weren't interested in anything long term, and each time one ended, it left me feeling like i would never find someone who shared the same feelings.
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Dudu
congratulations!!! I enjoy so much love stories :) Wish you both the best for the next ten years ...
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My Partner and I have been together for 10 years today!
by ohiocowboy ini am very proud that we have been together for 10 years!
being raised a jw, it was always hard for me to find a long term relationship.
most people that i met weren't interested in anything long term, and each time one ended, it left me feeling like i would never find someone who shared the same feelings.
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congratulations!!! I enjoy so much love stories :) Wish you both the best for the next ten years ...