Like Outlaw, this is news to me about Society-sanctioned hotels! Bizarre, bizarre!
About the time I exited in 1979, they had started assigned seating, with members of a particular congregation together, at assemblies. Does this still go on?
Of course, the reason there are so many assemblies is to keep JW's busy while they're on vacation so they can't relax and enjoy themselves and realize the joys of "worldly" life. My JW experience came to mind when I was watching one of those "mafia" movies (it might have been "Married to the Mob") in which the main character/narrator says something to the effect that members of the organized crime families didn't even go on vacation with their families; instead, they went as a large group and kept an eye on one another. Being "organized" in a high control "organization" certainly does inhibit one's ability to be able to figure out what is considered "appropriate" by their puppet masters.
I love being disorganized. I am always making the most amazing discoveries!
SandraC