So back in the olden days, (the 1980s) it was really frowned apon for a man and woman who are unmarried to be alone together without a chaperon. Where I came from they probably carried it to the exreme but that's the way I understood it was supposed to be throughout the org.
I have been out for years, but my wife continues to be a faithful dublitron.
Anyway, she cleans houses, and one of her clients is a recently widowed brother. I have come to find out that many times he is there when she cleans his house. Now don't get me wrong, I trust her, but isn't that really a no no for dubs?
It kind of bothers me but I can't really say why. If I persue the issue then knowing if this is still a big deal among the good folks in the troof would help me argue my point.
Any thoughts are welcome.